I’m not a man, but my ex didn’t like it. I’m aware of one other female 'mosan who’s husband doesn’t approve. I guess I can understand a spouce not liking it if it cuts into family time. Of course, some of us are a bit flirty from time to time, too–no one I know personally, of couse. Some better halves might not care for that, I suppose. Some spouces may not read or write English well enough to keep up with their partner’s obsession and that might be a bit awkward–but what ever happened to TRUST, people?
Mine objects primarily because she claims she doesn’t like me wasting precious time there, because I have very little spare time and lots of important things to do in it (which is true, but I still don’t find the flob to be a complete waste of time or to seriously interfere with my higher obligations).
But I’m sure a significant part of it is that she’s jealous that I want to spend so much time with all of you. Not that I don’t also spend time with her, but you’re all like my mistresses on the side. It doesn’t matter that I’m still fulfilling all my husbandly and fatherly duties and responsibilities; I’m not supposed to be getting it on the side too.
Two words: Internet widow.
I heard that from Maoman and his wife, and it makes a lot of sense. I know it’s easy to spend a good 30-60 minutes on this site if you find a long thread or two that really catch your attention. That can easily take away from your spouse/children. One way I try to cut down on the time spent here is by not posting much. Then you don’t have to spend any time reading follow up messages to your post. That, and I’m lazy.