[quote=“Icon”]Problem is: where is he going to find a job? who is going to hire him? Doe she have enough funds to settle elsewhere? He certainly has no retirement fund, no health benefits aside from basic stuff he gets if he works and hence, no work, no coverage.
It is scary to live like that. No wonder food has no way to push up its way up in the priority list.[/quote]
Sure it is. Being a 56-year-old unskilled worker in the US must be f’ing scary. In many ways, the place really is third-world: an older person in his position is probably not much worse off in, say, Vietnam. But I strongly believe that where most poor people screw up is by being compliant: keeping their head down and their nose to the grindstone in the hope that, somehow, it’ll all just work out, and the rich people will be nice to them, or at least not kill them. It’s been like this for all of human history, and it’s not a whole lot different in the US today.
I was reading some article about guns the other day (I was responding to a poster in a gun-control thread). It was written by some ex-military guy and he was offering advice about dealing with threats to your life - home invasions, kidnapping and suchlike. His point was this: if someone is threatening you with a gun and attempting to force you to submit to some bodily insult - being tied up, say - on the pretence that ‘everything will be fine’, you can be damn sure that everything will not be fine. Things can only get much, much worse. Therefore, the most logical option is to simply run far and fast, or do whatever you have to to resist, because the chances are you’ll be shot regardless (statistically, about 33%, apparently). In other words, you’re already fucked, so at least take your chances with what little luck you still have.
“Society” in most countries is a lot like a holdup. For the poor person, it’s not going to all work out fine, because the rules were written to make sure it doesn’t. A 56-year-old unskilled labourer (I’m just assuming he’s unskilled) who just hopes that he’ll have a job tomorrow, even if it’s 21 miles away, is already fucked. The story has a miserable ending whatever he does. His best bet is to take the advantages he has today - a job and a car - and make it less miserable. For example, he could tell his company he wants to train up. He’s a committed worker and if they have any sense, they’ll give him the day-release he needs. The worst that can happen is that they’ll say no. He may be able to sell a car-share to work to another employee. Maybe he can still downsize in some way. He could get married (although it sounds like he doesn’t have time for a social life). Two people can’t live as cheaply as one, but they can live as cheaply as one-and-a-half. If you can save money, you can buy land, which IMO is the most valuable thing anyone can have. You can either cultivate it and live on it directly, or you can rent it to others. 10ha of land in Ohio or Indiana costs less than $50,000. Living like that isn’t an idyllic retirement, but it’s better than being dead in a ditch.
The more important point is: don’t dig yourself into a hole you can’t get out of. WTF was he thinking? He’s had 40 years to make a life for himself. It’s a lot easier to prevent a crisis than to extract yourself from one.