The charts are pretty funny to look at for men.
That would explain why guys complain that girls don’t respond/match with them. Too much competition and/or creepy old dudes.
It’s probably due to the fact women are far more picky.
Women, on the other hand, are harsh with their ratings. According to the study, they rate a whopping 80% of men on the site as ‘below average’.
Doesn’t matter why. If it’s true that it’s all in the hands of women, men should consult that first graph and go for women who will actually want them instead of the ones who don’t.
The chart about age is preference, OkCupid stats show men are less picky in practice.
Being picky is a good thing. If you’re trying to find a mate for life at least.
They won’t know unless they try or you think the creepy old guys (as you put it ) should go for the creepy old women?
I think escorts and hookers are the solution. All up front no bulls…t.
If we want to pick the point where a man’s sexual appeal has reached its limit, it’s there: 40.
And that’s where sexy sexy money comes into play.
Sure, but so is being realistic. Is is really realistic to think the top 20% of men are above average based on looks?
Maybe, but I know some plainer folks who were boderline fun and then sad-n-lonely settled…and years later, they just seem, well, sad.
I think if they used their brain they would know that “as a 50 year old, maybe the 22 year old most likely is not going to be interested in me”. According to the chart, women are not creepy as they prefer age appropriate mates.
What do you mean by realistic? The women message guys they are not that attracted to (looks-wise) while the guys mostly go for the most beautiful ones? Which one is more realistic?
I would like to see gender preferences on their partners wealth by age, now that would be an interesting chart. I suspect it would be more similar to men with age.
And I would like to see one based on personality/values.
The one with the car.
They often have two , a pretty young man, and an older wrinkly one with the car and money.
For validation probably. I’ve known a few female friends who do this.
Validation is key. If a woman asks "Do you like my new hair style " the answer is always YES YES YES.
I like to throw in a no once in a while.
Ok? What is the point here though? Women only want validation and men only want to have sex with young women, regardless how old they are themselves? So we should stop using dating mediums if we want a real relationship because it won’t work otherwise?