the meaning of life (in middle class TW thinking)
- buy a car (and owe for 5 years)
- buy a house( a big one, and owe for 30 years)
- have 2 children
these are all on a schedule too. if you do not do these things when you are “supposed to”, you are wrong. you OWE your in-laws grandchildren. if you don’t have the ability to support having children, you must change your lifestyle and work harder so you can. no life choice bullshit. “if you can’t give me what i want, i don’t want you”
me i hate the MCB philosophy of life. i’m going at my pace. for the first time in my life, i’m calling the shots. i’m living in “the now” and loving it.i’m teaching my wife the same.
anyway, isn’t marriage about wanting to be with someone, not what they can give you?