I know that the vast majority of TW colleagues have a second “expenses” account.
I know guys who hide their 50K Bicycles at their freinds home- as their wife would go bezerk.
I know a few TW women whom still are not married as they reflect as a mirror to your GF (not finding a guy who is crazy enough to put his money (and faith) in the sole hands of a chick.
I know that there is nothing worse than a TW female saying “coz it is the way in Taiwan, so you need to do the same”
I know I got married (today ) after a 3 year probation period with clear rules.
- seperate accounts - I pay a monthly “housing budget” salary which allows the wife even to put money aside on her saving account
- her mother does not move in - unless I am dead. And I do not need to pay the bride tressor.
- I buy what I want - I do not hide anything and even has to force the wife once and a while to accept a gift.
Well, love is blind, but hell, you need to put your act together. it starts like that and then you end up in another thread here somehwere where a wife refuses to sign the divorce papers…
Last point … “you do not understand yet Taiwan culture”
Damn, I am starting to feel better
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