Sitting here with a 1 month old on my chest so her mother can get a couple hours rest. First up-close experience with such a young infant.
Based on my observations this whole baby-having thing is…not very fun. Even holding her makes me nervous. I think I’ll be a lot more comfortable when she finally begins converting from a liquid to a solid, because the floppy neck gives me so much anxiety.
I’ve only been here to help out for an afternoon and I’m already tired. Makes me wonder if I’ll ever be able to handle having a baby of my own. I just can’t believe it. How does everyone do this??
I think the concept of a 月子中心 is really awesome because she got to learn a few things from the nurses. She didn’t come home completely without skills or information. They taught both parents the basics. Expensive, though.
That’s true, but I’m still not really getting the full experience. Just doing some babysitting. My cousin won’t let me stay over and suffer through the real deal.
While you’re in the middle of it it feels like it’s going to go on forever and you’re going to lose your fuckin mind, and then suddenly you wake up and it’s like 2 years later.
They do grow up fast. The other baby in my family turns 1 in just a few weeks.
I guess right now is the most difficult part in terms of just keeping yourself sane and entertained, since they can’t really interact yet. Probably gonna be a few more weeks or a month before we see a smile.
Seriously, just retrain your big dumb man hands to be more careful. As for the tedium, if you can sit and watch any sport for any length of time, you can cradle a baby on the sofa and not move because he or she fell asleep on your chest. I’m 19 years ahead of you. It’s worth it…the silence…both of them silent at the same time. Treasure that time. It’s finite.
Trust me, after the birth of mine I had women approach me left right and center. Obviously I’m a good little husband so I didn’t try to develop the situation, but it’s pretty clear that most women are drawn to babies.