This is really interesting. I never thought this issue could be a subject for study.
I sometimes think there is no boundary between cyberworld and real life, especially for people who love online games and establish their identity with the roles they play in games.
Stick around long enough and you’ll see some of it on here. [/quote]You already can. People say things on here they wouldn’t say in real life and then defend it by saying “this is only the internet, it isn’t real life”. They can’t understand that their victims are real people with real feelings, which is probably a characteristic of bullies, they can’t make an emotional connection with others.
For what? No, it’s just easier to be obnoxious in real life. You have to consider your targets more, online; less creativity is required to be truly vile.
I remember reading an article about something like this last year. Lots of woe is us, down the drain goes English speaking society, handwringing articles in the British press. It’s important stuff. People should be protected!!!
Stick around long enough and you’ll see some of it on here. [/quote]You already can. People say things on here they wouldn’t say in real life and then defend it by saying “this is only the internet, it isn’t real life”. They can’t understand that their victims are real people with real feelings, which is probably a characteristic of bullies, they can’t make an emotional connection with others.[/quote]
The person who has sent the worse insults at me online was never even able to look at me in the eyes when I actually met him. I think it says a lot.
But who are you to speak on this subject? I have met you and I can attest that you are not fluffy at all. A big man you are, though… (I don’t mean physically) And that is a compliment, Sir.
That’s unkind. BFM’s a bit sensitive about “that” part.[/quote]Not sure what you’re on about. It’s not meant literally. It’s figurative and it is a compliment. :s
Seeing that you are aware of BFM’s sensitivities and I am not, then why do you rub it in? I think that’s unkind. In any case, I’m sure BFM will read my post for what it is, unlike you.