Offenses involving foreigners on the rise (China Post)

Bu… :? Sorry I read your post wrong. Thanks for defending my point.

As to Tigerman… :x I was completely aware of the output of the relationship. We were absolutely in love back then and when we found out we were pregnant my loser X bf wanted to get married. People are mostly not ready for such a surprise but surely we can be ready to adjust to it or accept the change. You ought to check your opinion bec. you do not know what it is like to be in the situation unless you’ve been to one yourself. I think you should form such comment on women who get involve with married men or men with gf.

Whatever.

My main point was in response to your blanket insult of all American males.

I personally know quite a few non-American men who have treated women in Taiwan poorly.

YOU apparently got YOURSELF into a mess with one guy… and now you are ranting against all males from that guy’s nation and even ranting against the nation itself.

Gimme a break… :unamused:

Tigerman :x

I never said “ALL” Americans did I ?

Here is what you said:

You said you especially cannot stand the American losers who abuse local girls… and you said that you’ve never met any American who hasn’t screwed a local girl… and you implied that American males “act like animals”… and you indicated that other foreign nationals dislike “the Americans” for the same reasons.

Yes, while you didn’t use the word “all”, IMO, it seems that you have nonetheless lumped all American men together. I find that rather insulting.

BJ you sound like a bitter person. Not all Americans who live in Taiwan abuse the locals, especially the local women. I live and work in Taiwan and I try to treat all the people here, foreigners and natives, with respect. So please be careful not to attack people who you don’t even know.

Don’t be defensive cableguy. There is only 1 or 2 Americans out of 10 here in Taiwan who would not abuse the locals and may be your one of them. Who knows? Very few wouldn’t fall in the category perhaps because they are gay or something like it. :smiling_imp:

What makes you think a gay man wouldn’t abuse the locals? :smiling_imp:

[quote=“BJones”]Don’t be defensive cableguy. There is only 1 or 2 Americans out of 10 here in Taiwan who would not abuse the locals and may be your one of them. Who knows? Very few wouldn’t fall in the category perhaps because they are gay or something like it. :smiling_imp:[/quote]BJones, You can’t go around saying that 80-90% of Americans abuse locals. This is a tolerant forum. If you carry on saying things like that you may have problems here.
Critism is ok, but you are bordering on rascism, which is not tolerated, so please try to tone it down a little.

A moderator.

[quote=“tigerman”]

… If she was having unprotected sex with an unmarried man, was she completely unaware of the possible consequences? [/quote]

So, not to sound like one of those foreign nationals that abuse women, does this mean that having unprotected sex with a married man is ok then? :wink:
:smiling_imp: :smiling_imp: :smiling_imp:
:flowers:

I’m assuming you’re including Taiwanese males in that category because there are A LOT of them who treat their women like sh*t.

What makes you think a gay man wouldn’t abuse the locals? :smiling_imp:[/quote]

I’m the first foreigner that my boyfriend has dated, and he says that ours is the first stable, loving, long-lasting relationship he’s had. He was always under the impression (as many are) that foreigners are sex-crazed animals, but now he’s of the exact opposite opinion.

[quote=“LittleBuddhaTW”]

I’m the first foreigner that my boyfriend has dated, and he says that ours is the first stable, loving, long-lasting relationship he’s had. He was always under the impression (as many are) that foreigners are sex-crazed animals, but now he’s of the exact opposite opinion.[/quote]

A little off topic, but I think that’s because the only exposure most gay men here have with foreign gay men throughout most of their lives is from watching porn.

[quote=“Flicka”][quote=“LittleBuddhaTW”]

A little off topic, but I think that’s because the only exposure most gay men here have with foreign gay men throughout most of their lives is from watching porn.[/quote][/quote]

Much like the only exposure most women have with foreign men are movies and ‘news’ stories (and perhaps the annoying pub crawler).

Here is what you said:

You said you especially cannot stand the American losers who abuse local girls… and you said that you’ve never met any American who hasn’t screwed a local girl… and you implied that American males “act like animals”… and you indicated that other foreign nationals dislike “the Americans” for the same reasons.

Yes, while you didn’t use the word “all”, IMO, it seems that you have nonetheless lumped all American men together. I find that rather insulting.[/quote]

Go down to the Roxy bars, B1 and such and tell me what you see. It’s pretty sad to see the behaviour of Foreign guys at these places.

Agreed, but those idiots represent what percentage of the total Western male population in Taipei? Not everyone at those places is a drunken fool, and those that are comprise but a small portion of the total. The idiots are just more visible than the stable, steady types.

I agree with what grasshopper and tomas said, but I think the issue Tigerman was upset about (rightfully so) is that BJones indicated that all those idiots are Americans, and 90% of Americans in Taiwan are those idiots.

Or something juvenile like that.

Dear LittleBuddhaTW,

Please stop ruining it for the rest of us :imp: . My GF would be deeply disappointed if I didn’t live up to the above statement :laughing: .

Sincerely,
Okami

Of course, we can totally ignore all the locals trying to “attach” themselves to any foreigner just so they can get out of Taiwan, can’t we? It even happens to gay guys… :noway:
But in this aspect gays from America are lucky, or is it unlucky, we can’t sponsor our boyfriends (and you should see how fast some of them run when I bother to tell them this tidbit of information :wink: )
(yes, before you flame me…I know ALL the locals don’t do it) :notworthy:

Oh puhlease. There are much better catches out there with a green card, a common culture and common language. Don’t flatter yourself.

What do you mean? :s