A male friend and I talked about orgy or threesome the other day. He thinks since monogamy is not natural to men, and since seeking affairs outside a long-time relationship may lead to relationship breakup, orgy or threesome may be a good solution to spice up a long-so-easily-dull monogamous relationship, especially for the female side if she doesn’t want her bf/husband to fall in love with someone else through affairs. But I think he’s just trying to justify a man’s fantasy for orgy/threesome.
What do you all think? Is orgy/threesome pretty much most men’s fantasy? And girls, will you do it if your bf/husband asks you to do threesome because you think it’s better than him seeking affairs behind you?
), don’t ruin this thread. I’m really curious about this. I mean, when I think of threesome, it seems to be a kind of non-mainstream sexual preference and not many people or couples would really want or try it (even in the western world). And even though there are many men (I suppose) who are into this idea, they don’t really try hard to turn this fantasy into reality. But my friend seems serious. I hope he can really try it one day (or maybe he already has!). Anyway our discussion makes me wonder if this threesome thing is actually more accepted in the “western” world and has been tried by many people. And for those guys who have tried or have thought about trying threesome, do they mind going for a two-guys-one-girl threesome? And for girls, will they do it just because their BFs want to try it, or they do it because girls themselves want to try and think it a lot of fun too? I could have posted this on Women Only, but I would like to hear accounts from both men and women. I’m not asking for juicy details here, I just want to know how people think of or react to threesome, and are there good or bad consequences about it on a relationship if both the parties in a relationship want it? Consider this as an informal and casual social survey!!
