# Parents and their children…the changing relationships (Taiwan examples)

**URL:** <https://tw.forumosa.com/t/parents-and-their-children-the-changing-relationships-taiwan-examples/259249>\
**Category:** Parenting\
**Created:** [August 25, 2026, 10:17am UTC](https://tw.forumosa.com/t/parents-and-their-children-the-changing-relationships-taiwan-examples/259249 "2026-08-25T10:17:28Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 11\
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**Author:** ![Brianjones](https://forumosa-12829.kxcdn.com/letter_avatar_proxy/v4/letter/b/eada6e/32.png) [@Brianjones](https://tw.forumosa.com/u/Brianjones)\
**Post date:** [September 14, 2026, 10:46am UTC](https://tw.forumosa.com/t/parents-and-their-children-the-changing-relationships-taiwan-examples/259249/21 "2026-09-14T10:46:46Z")

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Too late now , something went rotten early on.

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**Author:** ![Brianjones](https://forumosa-12829.kxcdn.com/letter_avatar_proxy/v4/letter/b/eada6e/32.png) [@Brianjones](https://tw.forumosa.com/u/Brianjones)\
**Post date:** [September 14, 2026, 10:47am UTC](https://tw.forumosa.com/t/parents-and-their-children-the-changing-relationships-taiwan-examples/259249/22 "2026-09-14T10:47:48Z")

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> [@Flakman](#):
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> 6 weeks at NT$10,000/night.

That’s 420,000 NTD.

He’s probably rich to afford that and the first class tickets and 2 million ntd for two months ‘liu xue’ but at this rate he won’t be rich much longer.

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**Author:** ![Flakman](https://forumosa-12829.kxcdn.com/user_avatar/tw.forumosa.com/flakman/32/135214_2.png) [@Flakman](https://tw.forumosa.com/u/Flakman)\
**Post date:** [September 14, 2026, 11:06am UTC](https://tw.forumosa.com/t/parents-and-their-children-the-changing-relationships-taiwan-examples/259249/23 "2026-09-14T11:06:34Z")

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Gotta feel sorry for the guy. Yes, he let this go on too long but mostly because his wife is a real control freak. He has so many problems with the wife he probably just gave up also trying to confront the daughter since the wife is 100% on daughter’s side.

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**Author:** ![Brianjones](https://forumosa-12829.kxcdn.com/letter_avatar_proxy/v4/letter/b/eada6e/32.png) [@Brianjones](https://tw.forumosa.com/u/Brianjones)\
**Post date:** [September 14, 2026, 11:07am UTC](https://tw.forumosa.com/t/parents-and-their-children-the-changing-relationships-taiwan-examples/259249/24 "2026-09-14T11:07:51Z")

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It’s a rough one, I feel bad for him especially in a small family.

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**Author:** ![Flakman](https://forumosa-12829.kxcdn.com/user_avatar/tw.forumosa.com/flakman/32/135214_2.png) [@Flakman](https://tw.forumosa.com/u/Flakman)\
**Post date:** [September 14, 2026, 11:14am UTC](https://tw.forumosa.com/t/parents-and-their-children-the-changing-relationships-taiwan-examples/259249/25 "2026-09-14T11:14:24Z")

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Yes, I feel sorry for him since he seems like a really nice guy. Don’t think I could tolerate what he endures every day…the women in his life are wearing him down that’s for sure.

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**Author:** ![Brianjones](https://forumosa-12829.kxcdn.com/letter_avatar_proxy/v4/letter/b/eada6e/32.png) [@Brianjones](https://tw.forumosa.com/u/Brianjones)\
**Post date:** [September 14, 2026, 11:18am UTC](https://tw.forumosa.com/t/parents-and-their-children-the-changing-relationships-taiwan-examples/259249/26 "2026-09-14T11:18:39Z")

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In this case sometimes you gotta cut your losses .

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**Author:** ![Flakman](https://forumosa-12829.kxcdn.com/user_avatar/tw.forumosa.com/flakman/32/135214_2.png) [@Flakman](https://tw.forumosa.com/u/Flakman)\
**Post date:** [September 14, 2026, 11:24am UTC](https://tw.forumosa.com/t/parents-and-their-children-the-changing-relationships-taiwan-examples/259249/27 "2026-09-14T11:24:25Z")

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I did not mention that his wife is the accountant for his company…controlling most of the money.

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**Author:** ![Brianjones](https://forumosa-12829.kxcdn.com/letter_avatar_proxy/v4/letter/b/eada6e/32.png) [@Brianjones](https://tw.forumosa.com/u/Brianjones)\
**Post date:** [September 14, 2026, 11:29am UTC](https://tw.forumosa.com/t/parents-and-their-children-the-changing-relationships-taiwan-examples/259249/28 "2026-09-14T11:29:02Z")

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Oooofff, they got him by the goolies.

It is indeed sad when people equate money directly with love , and a real low way to treat a husband and father. But in the society here they like to emphasise the traditional roles when it suits them, and not when it doesn’t suit them.

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**Author:** ![afterspivak](https://forumosa-12829.kxcdn.com/letter_avatar_proxy/v4/letter/a/ccd318/32.png) [@afterspivak](https://tw.forumosa.com/u/afterspivak)\
**Post date:** [September 14, 2026, 12:19pm UTC](https://tw.forumosa.com/t/parents-and-their-children-the-changing-relationships-taiwan-examples/259249/29 "2026-09-14T12:19:44Z")

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> [@Flakman](#):
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> Case 4
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> Carrie, a 58 year old lawyer, living at home with parents.

Carrie sounds like a piece of work.

Best to stay away from people like this!

Guy

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**Author:** ![RandomName](https://forumosa-12829.kxcdn.com/letter_avatar_proxy/v4/letter/r/779978/32.png) [@RandomName](https://tw.forumosa.com/u/RandomName)\
**Post date:** [September 14, 2026, 1:42pm UTC](https://tw.forumosa.com/t/parents-and-their-children-the-changing-relationships-taiwan-examples/259249/30 "2026-09-14T13:42:26Z")

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Most of these parents created these problems. They only have themselves to blame.

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**Author:** ![Poundsand](https://forumosa-12829.kxcdn.com/letter_avatar_proxy/v4/letter/p/e95f7d/32.png) [@Poundsand](https://tw.forumosa.com/u/Poundsand)\
**Post date:** [September 14, 2026, 3:44pm UTC](https://tw.forumosa.com/t/parents-and-their-children-the-changing-relationships-taiwan-examples/259249/31 "2026-09-14T15:44:37Z")

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Sounds like dude might be humble bragging about how much money he has.

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