This is a real problem. I abandoned our charity years ago due to related face issues. Focused more on educating children and environmental/animal cruelty issues instead. some people are deserving, but so egocentric they cannot dig thenelves out. I have more hope in fuure generations.
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Then make them earn it.
Have them do work for you. Doesnât have to be work that actually produces anything, but make them feel like they earned it. Then they can accept help without loss of face.
That is exactly how i used to think. I still do. however, i have had a rude awakening to the reality of current human entitlement.