Psycho Xiaojies: A warning from history!

I can’t help but feel the parents stuck their oar in and for good measure, tossed a spanner in the works. I was in Taiwan for 6 years and then china for 8. I’ve just returned and I can feel my wife’s parents omni-present influence even though we are living in Kaohsiung and they’re up in Taichung. I had limited experience with girls like this and I won’t be the first or last to say you got out just in time. You can’t battle tradition and their decision had been arrived at long before she actually broke the news to you .

[quote=“tommy525”]And in perhaps not too related news, we have a HERO here:

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and …now back to the regular programming on this thread.[/quote]

Those bitches had it coming.

I think it’s safe to assume Adamu was murdered by his psycho ex. :-/

(That or he has a halfway decent lawyer who instructed him to stop posting self-derogatory comments on the Interwebs)

[quote=“Hokwongwei”]I think it’s safe to assume Adamu was murdered by his psycho ex. :-/

(That or he has a halfway decent lawyer who instructed him to stop posting self-derogatory comments on the Interwebs)[/quote]

He just realized that he can do much better with his time than wasting it on unthankful and ignorant nerds.

I am sure he lets his lawyer do his work and enjoys the evenings with another chick and lots of fun,
learned de-attachment from his past experience and playing it the right way now (him having the control),
having fun without wasting feelings and money and getting out of TW before the next one turns psycho.

And I hope his ex will pay for it and he will get this car, dog and satisfaction back and can enjoy going back
from the country of the stinky tofu to the country of the rising sun.

Err, present company excluded, I presume? :ponder:

Or he morphed into another character?

Check for newbies and sleeping newbies who registered years ago?

Anyone moving to Taiwan just so they could pick up local Taiwanese women don’t need to exist.

I don’t think they do exist. Unless they were aiming for Thailand and got on the wrong plane. It happens.

Well…they only love them short time. For 5 dollar.

Men, and women, have been traveling the world since the beginning of time, just to find local partners. Cavemen did it, cavewomen did it, we do it today, people will do it in the future.

:ohreally:
Why shouldn’t someone go to a place where they feel they’ll have better luck?
If their intentions are pure, and they are honest with all comers, what’s the problem?

I only dislike the liars and those who take on new lovers with impunity, not bothering to take the feelings of others into consideration.

:ohreally:
Why shouldn’t someone go to a place where they feel they’ll have better luck?
If their intentions are pure, and they are honest with all comers, what’s the problem?

I only dislike the liars and those who take on new lovers with impunity, not bothering to take the feelings of others into consideration.[/quote]

Because it’s an excuse to not improve yourself and your approach to dating. To me, going to Taiwan is “taking the easy road”.

Let’s be honest here: local Taiwanese women are easy. Especially the ones that are obsessed with “foreigners”. You can disagree sure, but from my experience, this knowledge is well known, even here in NYC.

LOL I’m Taiwanese American and I have dated just as much attractive white and latina women as Asian in the US. A fool would think that Asian men don’t have it hard with dating here. But I love a challenge and what I have learned is – confidence and improving yourself reaps far better rewards. So I don’t have any sympathy for people who run because dating is rough in whatever country they are from. Moving to Taiwan to SOLELY to exploit their “foreigner” hospitality and refuse to make self-improvements is just sad.

Just my opinion.

:ohreally:
Why shouldn’t someone go to a place where they feel they’ll have better luck?
If their intentions are pure, and they are honest with all comers, what’s the problem?

I only dislike the liars and those who take on new lovers with impunity, not bothering to take the feelings of others into consideration.[/quote]

Because it’s an excuse to not improve yourself and your approach to dating. To me, going to Taiwan is “taking the easy road”.

Let’s be honest here: local Taiwanese women are easy. Especially the ones that are obsessed with “foreigners”. You can disagree sure, but from my experience, this knowledge is well known, even here in NYC.

LOL I’m Taiwanese American and I have dated just as much attractive white and latina women as Asian in the US. A fool would think that Asian men don’t have it hard with dating here. But I love a challenge and what I have learned is – confidence and improving yourself reaps far better rewards. So I don’t have any sympathy for people who run because dating is rough in whatever country they are from. Moving to Taiwan to SOLELY to exploit their “foreigner” hospitality and refuse to make self-improvements is just sad.

Just my opinion.[/quote]

I’m wondering how many men come to Taiwan just to “exploit” the poor and naive local ladies who don’t know any better? If you said Thailand, I could understand, because of it’s poverty and sex tourism etc., but Taiwan? These people may exist, but I think there are probably fewer than you imagine. There are probably a lot more people teaching, working, and travelling, who just happen to socialise with the local Taiwanese, women and men, and may end up dating them. Not a big deal. Some people, locals, get upset about this. They think that when they see a foreigner/adohgah/not one of the descendants of the dragon, dating a local woman/man, that they have some how directly stolen their property.

This isn’t just a Taiwanese/descendant of the dragon thing though. Insecurity, and primarily male insecurity was common in England as well (well it did in the 70s anyway). My parents had the same crap. My dad’s from the middle east, he came to England to study in a maritime college and get whatever qualifications. He met my mam, they fell in love, got married etc. etc. My parents got a lot of shit for this back then. My dad got attacked a few times for “stealing” a local woman. They couldn’t understand why a blonde haired, blue eyed woman would want to be with a foreign scum.

At the end of the day if person A likes person B, what the French Connection UK has is got to do with person Z? I think it’s most often just a case of - eat not arrive grape say grape bitter - everyone in XYZ knows that, and they all agree, at the same time… in synchronization, so they must be right.

You got it all right, bro.

:ohreally:
Why shouldn’t someone go to a place where they feel they’ll have better luck?
If their intentions are pure, and they are honest with all comers, what’s the problem?

I only dislike the liars and those who take on new lovers with impunity, not bothering to take the feelings of others into consideration.[/quote]

Because it’s an excuse to not improve yourself and your approach to dating. To me, going to Taiwan is “taking the easy road”.

Let’s be honest here: local Taiwanese women are easy. Especially the ones that are obsessed with “foreigners”. You can disagree sure, but from my experience, this knowledge is well known, even here in NYC.

LOL I’m Taiwanese American and I have dated just as much attractive white and latina women as Asian in the US. A fool would think that Asian men don’t have it hard with dating here. But I love a challenge and what I have learned is – confidence and improving yourself reaps far better rewards. So I don’t have any sympathy for people who run because dating is rough in whatever country they are from. Moving to Taiwan to SOLELY to exploit their “foreigner” hospitality and refuse to make self-improvements is just sad.

Just my opinion.[/quote]

I’m wondering how many men come to Taiwan just to “exploit” the poor and naive local ladies who don’t know any better? If you said Thailand, I could understand, because of it’s poverty and sex tourism etc., but Taiwan? These people may exist, but I think there are probably fewer than you imagine. There are probably a lot more people teaching, working, and travelling, who just happen to socialise with the local Taiwanese, women and men, and may end up dating them. Not a big deal. Some people, locals, get upset about this. They think that when they see a foreigner/adohgah/not one of the descendants of the dragon, dating a local woman/man, that they have some how directly stolen their property.

This isn’t just a Taiwanese/descendant of the dragon thing though. Insecurity, and primarily male insecurity was common in England as well (well it did in the 70s anyway). My parents had the same crap. My dad’s from the middle east, he came to England to study in a maritime college and get whatever qualifications. He met my mam, they fell in love, got married etc. etc. My parents got a lot of shit for this back then. My dad got attacked a few times for “stealing” a local woman. They couldn’t understand why a blonde haired, blue eyed woman would want to be with a foreign scum.

At the end of the day if person A likes person B, what the French Connection UK has is got to do with person Z? I think it’s most often just a case of - eat not arrive grape say grape bitter - everyone in XYZ knows that, and they all agree, at the same time… in synchronization, so they must be right.[/quote]

It’s like what you said, “foreigners” coming to Taiwan solely to pick up women because it’s easy are very few. Most “foreigners” in Taiwan are there for a change of scenery and enjoy the lifestyle there. I think it’s great that some are willing to put an effort to mingle with the locals and open their mind to new cultures. I personally think that’s a reason someone should live abroad, not because it’s easy picking up a “foreigner” obsessed local because you’re socially inadequate in your own country.

I think some are angry because they’re insecure and dateless themselves. But I also think there are those that are angry because they know how naive and dumb those foreigner-obsessed women are. My take on it is, that some of the men are probably embarrassed at how much dignity those women are willing to throw away just to date someone for the color of their skin and feel that it is projecting a negative image of Taiwan to “foreigners” in that the locals are naive, gullible, and easily manipulated. Regardless though, their anger shouldn’t be on the “foreigner” in question, it should be on those western-obsessed locals.

In the end, if a dateless “foreigner” wants to move to Taiwan SOLELY for capitalizing on easy Taiwanese women, then go for it; have fun, don’t get syphilis. But I don’t have to respect and view him as a man. But I’ll admit one thing, watching a local Taiwanese woman acting like she’s better than everyone else because she’s holding hands with some “foreigner” that looks like Bill Gates makes me giggle. Only in Asia…

:ohreally:
Why shouldn’t someone go to a place where they feel they’ll have better luck?
If their intentions are pure, and they are honest with all comers, what’s the problem?

I only dislike the liars and those who take on new lovers with impunity, not bothering to take the feelings of others into consideration.[/quote]

Because it’s an excuse to not improve yourself and your approach to dating. To me, going to Taiwan is “taking the easy road”.

Let’s be honest here: local Taiwanese women are easy. Especially the ones that are obsessed with “foreigners”. You can disagree sure, but from my experience, this knowledge is well known, even here in NYC.

LOL I’m Taiwanese American and I have dated just as much attractive white and latina women as Asian in the US. A fool would think that Asian men don’t have it hard with dating here. But I love a challenge and what I have learned is – confidence and improving yourself reaps far better rewards. So I don’t have any sympathy for people who run because dating is rough in whatever country they are from. Moving to Taiwan to SOLELY to exploit their “foreigner” hospitality and refuse to make self-improvements is just sad.

Just my opinion.[/quote]

I’m wondering how many men come to Taiwan just to “exploit” the poor and naive local ladies who don’t know any better? If you said Thailand, I could understand, because of it’s poverty and sex tourism etc., but Taiwan? These people may exist, but I think there are probably fewer than you imagine. There are probably a lot more people teaching, working, and travelling, who just happen to socialise with the local Taiwanese, women and men, and may end up dating them. Not a big deal. Some people, locals, get upset about this. They think that when they see a foreigner/adohgah/not one of the descendants of the dragon, dating a local woman/man, that they have some how directly stolen their property.

This isn’t just a Taiwanese/descendant of the dragon thing though. Insecurity, and primarily male insecurity was common in England as well (well it did in the 70s anyway). My parents had the same crap. My dad’s from the middle east, he came to England to study in a maritime college and get whatever qualifications. He met my mam, they fell in love, got married etc. etc. My parents got a lot of shit for this back then. My dad got attacked a few times for “stealing” a local woman. They couldn’t understand why a blonde haired, blue eyed woman would want to be with a foreign scum.

At the end of the day if person A likes person B, what the French Connection UK has is got to do with person Z? I think it’s most often just a case of - eat not arrive grape say grape bitter - everyone in XYZ knows that, and they all agree, at the same time… in synchronization, so they must be right.[/quote]

Double post.

I don’t understand why other people’s sexual preferences are somehow important to you. There are, undoubtedly, some women who have a “thing” about caucasians (you mean “caucasians”, don’t you, not “foreigners”, because “foreigners” includes those dirty Indonesians and other untouchables). Some women have a thing for bald men, or black men, or hairy backs (hello Icon). Why would you, or anybody else, care about that? And why is it your duty to judge the worth of those women?

My unofficial and rather limited survey of women who have a strong preference for non-Taiwanese is that they obsess over a particular nationality or racial/cultural group, not skin colour. One liked British men because she thought (maybe still thinks) they’re more cultured. I took her to Manchester once but it didn’t make any difference. One preferred Americans. One had fantasies about Italian men (she apparently got one and is now living happily ever after). One was, um, a size queen. Nowt wrong with that; some men have a thing about pneumatic women, don’t they? Do you judge them for being shallow?

They probably don’t care whether you think they’re a man or not. Look, the men who trawl the clubs here are the exact same men who trawl the clubs back home. There are “easy women” everywhere, same as there are easy men (um, I guess that would be most of them, but anyway…). Sex tourists, AFAIK, do come to Asia, but they don’t come to Taiwan.

I heard there’s a well trodden route for ‘sexy massages’ to Bangkok for women from Taiwan and Japan. :slight_smile:

I don’t understand why other people’s sexual preferences are somehow important to you. There are, undoubtedly, some women who have a “thing” about caucasians (you mean “caucasians”, don’t you, not “foreigners”, because “foreigners” includes those dirty Indonesians and other untouchables). Some women have a thing for bald men, or black men, or hairy backs (hello Icon). Why would you, or anybody else, care about that? And why is it your duty to judge the worth of those women?

My unofficial and rather limited survey of women who have a strong preference for non-Taiwanese is that they obsess over a particular nationality or racial/cultural group, not skin colour. One liked British men because she thought (maybe still thinks) they’re more cultured. I took her to Manchester once but it didn’t make any difference. One preferred Americans. One had fantasies about Italian men (she apparently got one and is now living happily ever after). One was, um, a size queen. Nowt wrong with that; some men have a thing about pneumatic women, don’t they? Do you judge them for being shallow?

They probably don’t care whether you think they’re a man or not. Look, the men who trawl the clubs here are the exact same men who trawl the clubs back home. There are “easy women” everywhere, same as there are easy men (um, I guess that would be most of them, but anyway…). Sex tourists, AFAIK, do come to Asia, but they don’t come to Taiwan.[/quote]

“I don’t understand why their sexual preferences matter to you”.

LOL relax yourself. Don’t be so defensive. I was replying to someone’s written response TO ME about moving to Taiwan solely to have better luck with women. Furthermore, I was adding my 2 cents to Dr. Jelly’s post who was talking about local Taiwanese men being upset over foreigners taking over their women. Last I remember that’s what you do on a forum right? Cause I believe you can share your thoughts/opinion on an issue that you don’t really care about. Speaking for myself, if I REALLY cared, I would actively do something about it beyond responding to you. Is there anywhere in my response that I implied that I will take serious action? Unless giggling is a CRIME!

So let me be frank with you. At the end of the day, it doesn’t matter to me if you’re some dateless loser in the US that wants to go to Taiwan to get laid, or if you’re some western loving local Taiwanese woman that just white guys. Do what you gotta do. But I have my thoughts on the matter. Am I going to do something about it? Nope, because it has nothing to do with me and it doesn’t affect my life. In the end, what matters is me, my family, my friends, and my girlfriend. But you want to know the ones that DO care? Those insecure local beta male Taiwanese guys that want to rip your head off.

“They probably don’t care whether you think they’re a man or not.”

FANTASTIC! That’s what I want to hear! I certainly would hope that they will not care that I think they’re sissy boys. If they’re confident, they shouldn’t give a rats ass about my opinion of them because what matters is what they think of themselves. Besides…I’m here replying for fun!

But “they” don’t come to Taiwan for sex?

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA! Oh man, if you’ve heard the things I’ve heard about Taiwan here in NYC. Hell, all my relatives, including cousins (all female) my own age have lived in Taiwan all their life, and they will tell you about white men going there and exploiting the small percentage of women who are obsessed with white guys. They even read about it. Oh, and they’ll tell you it goes WAY deeper than just a simple dating “preference” and it’s not based on nationality. But we don’t need to get into that because the topic is PSYCHO XIAOJIES.

Well … yeah. The language you’re using screams out that you care an awful lot.

If you wanted to emigrate to a country where women throw themselves at you just because you’re a “foreigner”, those countries do exist. Taiwan isn’t one of them. Really.

If you go to a gay club, you’ll see lots of people hoping to meet other gay people. If you go to a strip club, you’ll see seedy men who want to watch random women take their clothes off. If you go to a club where foreigners hang out, you’ll see - and you may not believe this, but it’s true - women who want to meet foreigners. The vast majority of Taiwanese women aren’t about to dump their nice Taiwanese bf the moment a White Man appears on the horizon.

Those women who look “proud” with the foreign boyfriend: could it be that they’re happy and in love, and it shows? What are they supposed to look like?

Ah, well, who can argue with the ‘facts’ in Apple daily, eh? :wink: