Good evening all…
My last post was a while ago, and my last visit to Taiwan was October 2005
The question today, I am back in Canada now, and i have met a girl here for language exchange that is from the mainland ,( I had originally planned to move to taiwan for a few years this year to study mandarin.)
We have been getting along well, but of course, we have become very good friends now.
I am from a very traditional household as she has, but the embarassing part is i have only dated on other girl in my entire life (i am 25) and that did not end very well… consider me inexperienced.
the question i have is, in reading these forums, it seems that typically chinese/taiwanese girls tend to be very skittish from what i have read on these forums and have observed, even though we may get along well, I am worried if i make the request to get to know her better, she may run.
She is a university student but has only been here for 1 year.
Anyway, im not sure if the approach with these women is different than in the west. I dont want to mess up a good opportunity as she is really nice.
thanks for the opinions all.
PS I should add that she invited me to her place in China this summer (her father owns a few properties) and apparently her parents know about me…