So I’ve lurked aroused these dreary boards for a while and thought I’d give the miserable souls here some extra company. I’ve read through this thread carefully, trying to make sense of it all. So far this is what I’ve learnt:
~ White people married to Taiwanese girls are getting offended at the implication that Taiwan may be viewed as hotspot for “sexpats”, which in turn may suggest that they are, once were or would wish to be a sexpat.
~ Sexpat is mentioned as a balding, fat middle aged man. So if one has a lean and supple body and/either/or a head of hair but still frequently has sexual relations with asian girls in many different countries, is he not qualified to be a sexpat?
~ Taiwanese men are offended by white “losers” stealing their" women.
~ Taiwanese women are offended by the idea that they are property of Taiwanese men
~ White men are offended at the suggestion that all white dudes come to Asia for easy sex
~ White men, if they do have Taiwanese gfs here, are only able to get ones who look as if they’ve been “mauled by an ugly stick”
~ As if in direct contradiction, white men with good looking Asian girlfriend’s are taking advantage of some serious perks of “White charisma in Asia”
If i go to Europe and NA with having sex with the women there in mind. Am I a sexpat?
Many Asians think Americans girls and Europeans girls are having sex like crazy all the time. Europeans think Americans and Asians are easy. Americans think Europeans and Asians are easy. It’s not really something exclusive to white men coming to Asia.
Sorry, apparently you must be a white, balding and fat male. You’d be an anomaly. Living in Europe as an Asian male you’d be considered bottom of the ideal dating choices totem pole. That is unless you are rich.
Now, of course I am not a subscriber of that kinda thinking, but just as some (probably Asian) men have created the sexpat tag to belittle interracial relationships in Asia, you can rest assured that the reverse exists in Europe, America and the greater (figuratively speaking) whiter parts of the world.
Maybe it all stems from jealousy and insecurities, but these topics are never ending. We’re all human and sure, there are some odd couplings out there, but if people didn’t have such confidence issues then nobody would waste their day judging people that have nothing to do with them.
I feel ok. Even the gay men there check me out. I’m sure there are many who would never date an asian man. But then again, I’ve had women said they thought that before they met me. Mostly because most asian guys don’t really go up and talk to them or ask them out. And they’ve have very little interaction with them.
But yeah, Lilith has overheard some people assume I’m paying for her or something in Europe. Usually jealous losers so I’m not really that upset.
You’re adjucating to stereotypes here. There is a difference between taking a sarcastic stab at a stereotype and reinforcing it. How do you define a looser? Did it oocur to you a foreigner may be a banker, a doctor or some sort back home? It takes a bit of balls to live and work in a foreign country so I’d not be so quick to jump to conclusions if I were you.
Addressing your other point: Is the value of a woman based only on her appearances?
If you sight an interracial couple walking around town that you perceive to be unattractive, maybe it will occur to you one day that they kissed a lot of frogs to get to that point.
I’ve dated girls I’ve considered pretty and girls that society has deemed pretty. There is a keen difference. And I will tell you everyday that without a decent personality, strong ethics and morals even the most pretty face will not act as a condolence during trying times. Based on your attitude, I’m going to assume you’re young. Melt away the superficial exteriors and you might find something valuable.
Ah, but based on my understanding your gf (who is also a member of this forum? ~ kudos you to you both on that by the way as as much as I love my girlfriend she is clingy enough without having to see her even on internet chat rooms) ~ based on what I’ve read here said that English teachers are low paid losers she’d never date? In that case perhaps you have found your match. Peas in a pod, as the saying goes
What? I said when I’m in Europe and locals say something to me. I never called a foreigner here a loser. The entire time I’ve been saying the opposite…
I’d say it’s important. If I don’t find you physically attractive, I don’t find you physically attractive. There’s no amount of personality to make up for it on the physical level.
Haha this pedant is having some harmless conversation with another board member. I don’t see any vitriol or insults being spread around. Rare for the internet!