In general, Taiwanese women expect the man to pay for pretty much everything. With the variations noted by daisyhk above. A lot of foreign men really resent this. I’ve seen any number of potential couples founder on these rocks.
Once things have settled down into a more steady relationship, more practical arrangements can and should be made depending on relative levels of income. Even if the lady in question makes a small salary, she should contribute something once in a while. But men should also keep in mind that a woman making NT$20K a month or so is probably handing over NT$5k to her parents each month and using a substantial chunk of what remains to buy the clothes and makeup that the guy likes. She also needs to eat lunch, people. So give her a break.
In the beginning, a Taiwanese woman is looking for signs that this is someone who is willing to take care of her in a broad sense. A guy who is cheap is huge turnoff–it is a sign that the couple is going to be squabbling about money and who pays for what on vacations. Yuck.
On the other hand, the foreign man (and I bet a lot of Taiwanese men too), is worried that this is one of these women that expects to be maintained in high style and that the sky will rain down with gucci bags and prada accessories. Despite many horror tales from other foreign friends, I’ve never actually had the misfortune to encounter one of these creatures in a romantic context. Then again, I don’t date girls from Taipei (just kidding…sort of).
So how about a little mutual understanding. Guys just pay for those first few dates without making a big deal of it. Ladies, pay for a taxi every once in a while or suggest taking the bus or MRT. Both of you: do some inexpensive things like riding your bikes on the bike trails, go for a hike, get your fortunes told, and have a mango ice.
BTW, the idea that men should be paying for things is not limited to Taiwan. Helen Gurley Brown (founder of Cosmopolitan) is famous for saying that:
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Men earn more than women, so they must naturally expect to pay for everything and buy you expensive gifts! [/quote]
and of course…