[quote=“bismarck”]Hey…I aint got no drinking problem… I drink, I get drunk, I fall down…No problem.
Nah, only kidding of course, but yeah I agree with you. In South Africa I met most of my friends through rugby (sevens and union), my gym partner and mutual friends. But my thing is that I’ve never been very “tribal”. I’ve always been the guy that doesn’t have a best friend per se, but always hangs out with everyone. So I usually get invited places and go there on my own.
But here it seems one needs to make more of an effort to get invloved in a variety of activities, hence I’ve now taken up joining a few of the lads for a weekly round of pool. I just need to expand my horizons I think.
And learn to scowl less… :s[/quote]
I got to get my scowling locked down too! I see what your saying, you may not be very tribal or feel like you are yourself. I don’t view myself as that too, but with the interests I dig, like the things I’m into just like what you like like playing rugby, going to the gym or shooting pool are traits of tribalism. The things I do, IE skateboard, the musical generas I listen to, talk to others who dig it and go see the musicans play it, the RPG games I play with others and the films and books I see and chat with other about are all fringe aspects of society. Hence the term sub-cultures. Most, not all belong to one or more. I can personally slip in and out of a few and not be called out as an outsider by those who devote most of there time to it.
There are people who label themselves and others just on there recreational activitys alone. Like “He’s a punk”, “She’s a B-Girl” “He’s a hippy” ETC. It’s an everyday thing to hear about someone or talk about someone oursleves and tag on there tribe like “I met this cool Australian surfer dude on the weekend” or “I work with this Canadian pothead” for example. Society as a whole is tribal, it’s human nature. We call it other things, but religion, culture, social class and even economics are tribal. Look at terms like “The millionare club” or “blue collar” and other terms used to lump people together to explain a person/people just end up being other groups of people existing together around other large groups with smaller ones slipping in and out of all of it and around all. We humans are a species. As a species beyond the things that may seperate most or many with constructs such as race, religion and culture at the root of it all of it, all we are is tribal creatures of habit. One way or another, That’s something not many people on this planet can excape. Short of heading off into the mountians or rainforest alone and alienating yourself from the human population.
Thanks for reading this little rant if you got through it all!
Peace