As relationships, and all the things wrong with women, seem to be in vogue here right now let me start one more.
I was out with my new gf a few weeks ago when her phone rang, and she wandered off looking distressed while the guy on the other end gave her an ear-bashing. Getting the story out of her afterwards was like pulling teeth, and not surprisingly either.
It turned out that this was someone else who believed he was her boyfriend, calling to vent because he had learned that she was seeing someone else. No, not me. There was a third guy :shock:
I think that has all been resolved, but had to discuss it with a lady friend of mine - also Taiwanese. Unfortunately she wasn’t really listening to my problems because she met this guy a while back and is a bit distracted. He was on a business trip from the US for several weeks, they had a little adventure, and have been on the phone daily ever since and are even planning a holiday together. Great!
I’m so happy for her, but… now they’ve hit a small snag - since they met she has also started sleeping with another guy and #1 has found out.
So I give up, trust to my own judgement, and resolve my own relationship problems. Then my phone rings. It’s another Taiwanese lady friend looking for advice, because she has just kissed a married man. Real kisses after a real date.
As she’s my friend I tried to help her be clear about what she wants, which is to have an affair with a married man, and try to help her protect herself.
(Found this article on being the pefect mistress for her!)
But I am a bit gobsmacked by all this. I’m a trusting soul, and all this rather erodes my ability to cope.
Comments from the gallery? :?