[quote=“fh2000”]Maxxam,
You have the strong courage to post your question here thinking your English teacher might be reading here. You ran the risk of being recognized and getting kicked off of his class. As a Taiwanese myself, I can understand your dilemma. On one side, you would like to respect your teacher and others. On the other hand, you feel being treated unfairly. So, what would a westerner do in this situation? Please do not get discouraged by many foreign posters’ criticism toward you. Many are unnecessarily harsh and not really solving your issue.
Since you are learning English, understand the western way of handling the situation should also be part of the learning process. Simply learning how to write and pronounce the words properly is not enough. From my experience, once you reach certain proficiency in English, people (westerners) would simply assume that you will behavior at their level. Fighting for your own rights in a firm but non-confrontational manner is one major western attribute that takes many years for me to learn. Next time when you encounter this, I would suggest simply raise your hand with your index finger up, and say with a smile:
“Mr Smith, I have a quick question when you are done. Can you explain how ?”
If your English teacher has any sense of professionalism, he would stop and move on to the lessons. If not, he is not a good teacher for you to follow. You should find another teacher.
Your English is very good. I think you are at least at a graduate school level or even stayed in English speaking country for a while. You should aim for the next level and learn how westerners behave, ie their culture.
Good luck to you.[/quote]
Excellent post. And you are right many people have been stupidly critical, forgetting what it’s like to be young and intimidated by the system.
To the OP. While it’s good you recognize your cowardliness, you must at some point decide if this is how you want to live your life. It’s not easy to stand up for yourself, not even for us westerners. Most of us don’t really get good at it till we are well into adulthood. But you have to start somewhere and build on the habit.
Anyway, it’s January 1st. No better day to set a resolution. 