[quote=“Hrodric”]Allow me a few brutally honest remarks, if you please. I don’t know you personally; all I have to measure you is what I see from you here. You could be Ghandi or Mother Teresa incarnate in real life for all I know; or not. No hate, no love; just business.
Frankly, I think the opening post is very disingenuous. Are we surprised when the employees of Enron said bad things (even launched vitriol) about their former CEO after how his performance and actions affected them and the company? No. Are we writing articles about how the employees of WorldCom were just being ‘irrational’ over their CEO given all their efforts to get him tried in court? No.
The President of the United States of America is the de facto CEO of the country; this is something everyone able to read this already knows. The ‘employees’ of that ‘company’–who also happen to be voting ‘shareholders’–have every right to express their dissatisfaction towards the (perceived or actual) lack of performance that has been on display over the last few years. Guess what? It even happens to ‘good’ CEOs! So, are we really shocked when a poor-performer (perceived or otherwise) gets a higher share of insults thrown his/her way? Really, really?! No, this is untruthful.
Even if you are an amazing officer–one of the best–you will still have detractors. It’s just how the game is; if you don’t like it, go play in the minors–the big leagues aren’t for you. Better yet, don’t play; take your ball and go home. But at least, amongst us, let’s drop the ‘golly-gee, BillyBob, I just don’t know why people don’t like him’ act–it’s dishonest to do otherwise and many are not fooled by it.
The employees of WorldCom, Enron, etc, only lost their pension and their ‘irrational hatred’ towards those respective officers is deemed justified. In wars, people sometimes lose a lot more than a pension fund: sons, daughters, fathers, mothers, brothers, sisters, husbands, wives, lovers, childhood friends, … their moral compass, their health, their limbs, their sanity, etc… The actions of those corporate officers only affected a few hundred thousand people or so; the scale of the greater U.S. is many times that. Yet, we are ‘amazed’ that a sizable contingent of the citizenry really doesn’t like “ol’ ‘Dubya?’” Is this for real?? No, actually, this is insincere.
It doesn’t matter if you think he’s the greatest president since Washington or the worst; it doesn’t take a Ph.D. in mathematics to figure out that: (a) he’s going to be unpopular given the current circumstances and (b) the masses, who have a certain degree of freedom, will express themselves so. This is not a surprise for anyone above the emotional age of eighteen. Maybe the title should change to: “I don’t like people not liking GWB.” Or, “People should like GWB because…” Better to be up front about your objective than to claim ignorance over something so fundamentally basic.
On the other hand, I also realize some people just really love being a contrarian–it’s part of their psychological profile; they can’t get enough of it, oftentimes it’s the only exciting thing that will happen in their otherwise uneventful day. But that is as stupid and immature as the other fools blindly following the majority these contrarians profess to despise so much. It’s like watching a set of children set their direction by going the opposite way the other children are going. Cute, albeit bizarre, during childhood; pitiful during adulthood.
Some others have a more serious pathological imperative to ‘rattle the cage’ in order to get their ‘kicks.’ Oftentimes, they really don’t care either way; all they want is to watch others be put on the defensive or squirm, or hurt, etc… This last scenario is rather problematic, not to mention disturbing, and requires significantly more resources to fix. Easiest solution for this scenario in this Internet-Forums medium is to simply shun and ignore the person in order to deprive them of their means of ‘getting off.’
Fortunately, I don’t think either of these last two is the case for you. However, if they were, we should change the title of the thread to: “My friend(s) and I need attention; please post here.” At least that would be honest and WAY more fun and entertaining for all involved.
Constructive Feedback:
(a) Change the title of the thread to reflect its true intent. You are a wee-bit too smart to claim ignorance or feign indignant shock over this.
(b) Never switch focus when a question about someone else’s performance arises; it shows weakness and lack of preparedness. When one manages a unit and it comes time to partition incentives and a rival questions your allocations, one does not win by answering with “why the hate?” Answering it with ‘why not’ is even worse–it shows lack of maturity to go along with the weakness and lack of preparedness. Answer it by giving specific, measurable reasons why such-and-such deserve such a compensation package; list out the contributions to the bottom line this person(s) has brought to the table.
Similarly, don’t cry over the ‘hate’ for GWB; state your perceived accomplishments and contributions that he’s brought to the bottom line and be prepared to defend them without emotional drama. Also, remember that we are talking about running a corporation/country–not a cult. Leave the faith-based economics, hopes/wishes/dreams, would’ve/could’ve/should’ve at home–bring facts.
Regards,[/quote]
My vote for one of the most intelligently-constructed posts in the IP. Definitely a keeper in the Hall of Fame.