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Snort. Ok then. God was missing an angel and he called him back to the fold. He didn’t leave his children fatherless because he killed himself by accident in the most childish possible way.
‘Contempt’ would be a bit strong becausehe was a stranger to me and yet it would be mawkish, sentimental and slightly disrespectful to the people who actually knew him for me to rend my garments on his behalf. ‘Mild distaste’ would be more accurate and sincere, along with disappointment because I liked some of the films he was in, and he seemed like someone who gave something to the world through art. That’s rare. He seemed clever.
He was great in ‘Synecdoche, New York’, but then he wasn’t really acting, if you look at his eyes. That’s always sad.[/quote]
Well there is surely a middle ground between ripping off your clothes and calling a dead addict childish. Addiction isn’t childish, yes it is selfish, but that is a symptom, surely. Addiction is an errant response to environmental stimuli. PSH had been clean for 20 years (according to what one reads) and something obviously set him off again. Could it be his recent separation? That is the sad part. Whatever was going on in his brain allowed him to believe that heroin was the best response, unless you believe that he suddenly decided to become a selfish prick and kill himself. He must have been in an awful state to have started abusing himself in that way. Awful enough to blow what most people in the world would consider an almost idyllic life (rich, married, well loved).
If you don’t have compassion for people who use drugs that is fine. But many people you will know DO self medicate for whatever reason and they need a bit of understanding and help. One should have more compassion for people when they are at their lowest, not when they are at their peak. Somebody I know recently pointed that to me when I complained about a mutual friend who seems to constantly find ways to fuck up whatever opportunity comes their way.
It is a shame that the man didn’t go and get help. It is a shame it lead to his death. It is a shame it will have repercussions for his now fatherless children. Is it a shame that illegal drugs are seen as a way to self medicate through the pain of life. These are the measured responses that show moderation of thought.