[quote=“MiakaW”]someone can keep up w/ me, its hard to find them.
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I’ve never known a man who didn’t want to do it at least once a day, every day. That’s about normal, yes? Morning, afternoon, night — the problem is that we have these things called j-o-b-s that get in the way of our what we’d like to be our ideal sex lives. Let’s get down to it, honestly - you have the basic libido of an average man, except that you are a woman. I don’t know what kind of “men” you’ve been running into, but…speaking as an average guy, nothing especially strong about my desires, but if he’s not up for it at least 2 or 3 times a day (I mean, I think about it every 10 or 15 seconds minutes), there’s a problem with his hormones. I am not talking macho bullshit, I am telling the truth. How old are you and your partners, BTW? Maybe that may have something to do with it. Most guys seriously lose it and have to ingest Viagra after about 40-50 or so. You should start playing Mrs. Robinson and start dating hot young Taiwanese hunks in that case.
[quote=“Rubicon Bojador”][quote=“MiakaW”]someone can keep up w/ me, its hard to find them.
[/quote] How old are you and your partners, BTW? Maybe that may have something to do with it. Most guys seriously lose it and have to ingest Viagra after about 40-50 or so. You should start playing Mrs. Robinson and start dating hot young Taiwanese hunks in that case.[/quote]
I am in my late 20’s and my ex partner were around my age also. It could be because they are tired or they just can’t keep up with me. Or maybe it was toward the end of the relationship that they didn’t want it anymore… I really don’t know. But in most of my relationship, I am always the hornier one.
You say “ex-partner” not “ex-partners” so that implies that you’re judging from a very small sample. Trust me, most guys are not like your ex-boyfriend. It is, in my experience, 9 out of 10 times the opposite case. The exception I can think of…well, she was…how can I put this…OK, there’s no other way to put it delicately, she was basically just too ugly for me to get excited about her sexually. The only reason I kept her around was that, even though she was below my standards, she was just soooo enthusiastic and eager for sex all the time, and made no more demands on me or my time than just having lots of sex. Even though I didn’t particularly like her very much…honestly, you have to admit that’s a big draw for anyone, lots of no-frills, no bullshit, honest sex anytime you wanted it. We broke up because that was ALL it was…terribly unsatisfying from any sort of emotional point of view.
I don’t know…if it was towards the end of the relationship, that makes sense - the guy was getting bored with you and wanted to move on. When it gets to that point, the sex isn’t going to be very good.
Research is going very badly. I wasn’t attracted to a single guy in the place. So I decided to head over to Vibe at 4. I had unusual male activity. Various dudes tried to dance with me, but I even experienced a mild sense of nausea if any of them tried to touch me.
Eventually this quite busty girl came and danced with me and I found myself staring at her breasts for way longer than I usually would have.
So far the conclusion is that I may have been completely gay all these years, but the hormones in The Pill had incorrectly steered me in the direction of The Penis.
However, it’s only been a few days, so I think I’ll have to head out for more hands-on research next week-end.
Hmmm, so the pill may have prevented you from enjoying the fruits of your true lesbian nature? Do you need any independent observers for your next round of research?
I for one am not surprised. The first posts I saw by you, coupled with your odd avatars, the first thought in my mind was, “A gay man trapped in a woman’s body.” You are very camp. You are into dancing at discos. 2 + 2 together = well, you can figure it out.
Wow, I guess you’re right, as some of my friends have also told me that! I need visual stimulation to be interested in anything at all, and most men just don’t offer that much visually. (they don’t tend to dress up in an interesting way).
I went to a couple of goth clubs when I went on holiday in February, and my libido came back with a bang! Whether it’s a man, woman or a praying mantis, if it’s in costume, I’m happy.
Oh my, my, my. I’m adding that to my “hot men” folder right now. Thanks Imani, darling. Wonder if Tetsuo would still be interested in observing if there were insects involved rather than hot lesbians.
(starting to wonder whether going off The Pill was such a good idea after all)
