Good luck tommy.
I think stay away from marriage in future and lean more towards age appropriate dating.
And she needs to be kicked out on her arse pronto.
Yeah two of my friends have divorced more
then ten years ago and have live in partners where they are going strong and a great relationship not being married
I think society may have to rethink the whole marriage thing it doesnât work for a lot of people
If two people are not married and not liking each other itâs generally going to come to the forefront faster and easier and the dis engagement is much smoother too
Obviously kids have to be looked after
But having kids doesnât stop divorce
Know what ? We kinda veered away from the topic of Tommyâs new cat here
Think I hijacked my own thread
Back to Tommyâs three formerly stray cats and one Savannah kitten
These two kittens belong together until they are a year and a half old when they are grown then they will not be so attached to each other. As an example of how Tammy simply does not have a heart of compassion. Her friend was able to give away the other half of the sister pair to a friend of hers who has a single bengal in the East Bay and Iâm pretty sure Lady misses her sister as well because these two were inseparable and I have told Tammy so many times not to separate them, and yet she will not listen. She will not give up Miura so that she can be with her sister in a proper home and sheâs just being selfish wanting to keep this cat and now this cat is in our home or my home she is without her sister who she likes to cuddle with. So now sheâs trying to cuddle with Goldie. Goldie doesnât want to cuddle with her. Sheâs trying to cuddle with Ricky and same thing Ricky wonât have it and even Ollie doesnât want to cuddle. Maybe Ollie will come around, heâs the one who actually likes the kittens when they were here. I think Tammy was cruel to separate them at this time. They will have grown up fast enough.
The good thing is the friend of tammyâs who actually bought the two savannah kittens (and probably still owns Miura cuz I bet tammy has not paid her) wants Miura back in a few days because the Scottish folds miss Miura and Lady and since Lady seems to be gone for good, Miura will be good company for her two boy cats.
So i can feel good Miura has friends. Shes very happy with the two boy Scottish folds.
Hopefully her friend will put her foot down and simply keep Miura.
Then tammy can just have Goldie to keep in her place. Which is good for her and good for Goldie as shes usually not home and Goldie does not require a lot of human handling.
I am now grabbing him once a week when i change the sheets on the bed in the guest room and I can get him from under the bed when i remove the mattress (only way) and hes pretty docile when I am holding him. Pretty ok with it. so hes coming along to becoming a proper house cat.
Savannahs really do play fetch naturally
Quite fun
You throw the toy and they get it and bring it back at your feet waiting for you to throw again
She gets impatient too when I donât throw it again. Immediately
Ollie has a new friend in Miura who loves to chase Ollie around the house and she catches him which makes Ollie very mad
So he hisses at her a lot and tries to whack her but the little girl will have nothing of that and stands up to him
So he backs down sheâs part genuine wild cat so he has better understand that
Sheâs got the inner wild cat in her and when she grows up sheâs going to be much larger than Ollie so she can easily intimidate him
But sheâs actually very sweet natured just a bit wild
The 12 pct wild African serval shows in her character
Still I admire how sweet she is . She actually likes to cuddle with the big cat if they will let her
Ollie actually likes her a lot but itâs hard for him to show that
Goldie wonât play with him and his sister wonât either so Ollie better find a friend in miura who plays fetch with me and chases olllie as her play routine
Isnât she the sweetest? She likes to sleep on the sofa next to you but if you leave and are not back in two minutes she comes looking for you
So damn cute!
Iâm old and Iâm not attracted to old ladies, but Iâm more attracted to old dudesâŚ
You do realize that marriage grants a lot of legal rights that lived in couples donât getâŚ
He has actual experience with marriage, so one would assume he knows a bit more about it than you.