[quote=“Ermintrude”][quote=“tommy525”]Oh yeah she knows the program. NO worries. Meantime shes a happy camper. Cooking everyday, going out for walks, playing with the cat. Will get her set up with how to take the local bus to connect with BART. Which will expand her horizon.
And setting her up with an english class.
LIke I said, this was not entered into with NO plan lah
I don’t think its a problem for immigration if she goes back for a month or a wee bit more after near a year here?
You get a provisional green card which is valid for two years. Then after the two years is up, you can get a ten year green card. I think there is some sort of interview to get the ten year card. Because thats when they look at your two years together. Obviously if we end up spending most of the two years being apart. It will raise eyebrows at Immigration.
But I think a month is not bad, considering how far Jakarta is from San FRancisco !![/quote]
Hey, I’m not criticising, Tommy. We’ve known you here a long time (yeah, it’s Buttercup), and we are ‘defending’ you. Don’t see my concern as insulting you by considering you stupid, or hating on your partner. We just want you to be happy.[/quote]
Buttercup?? Well HOWDY DOODIE. LONG time no see !
Oh , i wasn’t in the least bit insulted, because i didnt read any of that in your lines.
No worries.
YEs its really quite a big leap for her and so far shes taking it really well. Thank God for skype and the ability to chat hours on end with her buds and family back home. Which she does for hours a day.
And that helps a lot.
Its all still fresh and all. The overall outlook remains good .
Of course a year from now we will see if its all a well oiled machine or shes already abandoned the boat and fled home or what?
Or i will be the hen pecked husband who decides to escape to BORNEO or something !
She CANT LEAVE until she gets her green card, but I could escape to BORNEO !
Send the Orangutans after me will ya?
To be honest although CAlif has really been my second home for a long time. When i was essentially exiled from the rock in 99 , it was really hard for me to adjust to being here in cAlif on a “permanent” basis. Took me years before I really felt i was “home”.
I didnt return to taiwan for ten years, making a visit in 2009.
Really hated to get on the plane to come back to cAlif. Same when i came back in 2012.
But funny thing was when the plane landed in SFO, i actualy felt i was “home”.
p.s. right now shes yakking away in indonesian to her buds/family back home. And shes having a fun convo.
Sometimes i picture if this is what it sounds like with head hunters in Borneo or Irian Jaya? haha
Actually the indo language is rather pleasant sounding to me.