Ah the one that got away ! My dad said that sometimes you donât realize that you let the love of your life slip away âŚ
oh wait thatâs not going to make you feel better Is it
It BE what it IS.
Sure sounds a girl I used to know also
At any rate itâs going to be real hard to find her since you know so little
This sounds like a potential for an updated version of âThereâs Something about Maryâ --> East meets West version 2.0.
Hire a russian hacker. Get access to those school emails ASAP.
Of course once the Russian hacker locates her, he will find her equally as intriguing. Definitely âwifeâ material.
He will give you her contact info, BUT be prepared for his sabotage. Weâre talking about your credit score crumbling. Swatting you. Tweeting homophobic language and imagery with your account. The usual stuff.
Make contact with her. And of course she remembers youâŚand so happy you contacted her and yes she is SINGLE. Remember the movie thoughâŚâunload the chamberâ before the first date . You want to go into it with a clear calm head(s). The rest is up to you.
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Leave her alone. It sounds like you blew your chance with her the first time around. I doubt sheâd ever want to see you again.
[/quote] OP never said he wanted to see her again, just apologize for his behavior.
Not sure if this will help, but you DO know her first name, and she IS Taiwanese . . .
If sheâs got a weirdly spelled first name, say, âWolfganeâ or âMatildurâ, just search for that on Facebook.
Youâre welcome.
This is true. My experience is that a guy will still be pining for a girl even years after while she moved on in the first week and never gave you a second thought. Generally speaking
My armchair psychology thinks this is because women donât really need to work at getting a boyfriend so there is always more guys waiting to keep her company that she doesnât have time to worry about some random in her past. Guys need to bust their balls getting attention if they are average looking and not Brad Pitt. So we tend to lock on
OP apologizing for his behavior at this point is utterly self-serving. Sheâs probably been over it, has barely thought about it for ages, and wouldnât appreciate being reminded of it. Tracking down and apologizing to an ex years after the fact, just to assuage feelings of guilt? Not just creepy, but also pointless.
Unless sheâs a total loser whoâs managed to stay hung up on some douchebag for five whole years, she isnât gonna give a shit about getting an apology now. The best thing to do is let her be.
Oh,it would probably just be fizzle fizzle if he had actually gone! But, you never know, she could actually be an unmarried mother and be very happy to see him again.