Following situation: I’m out shopping with the wife (she’s taiwanese). We bring our stuff to the register and I hand over the money/card and wait with the wallet in my hand for the clerk to hand over the change but he/she instead gives it to my wife, who in return gives it to me.
This doesn’t happen always but still quite often.
I assumed they know I can’t be trusted with money since I would spend it on stupid stuff, or my Ron Swanson Look but your explanation sounds logical aswell.
Actually, this happens to me almost always. They tend to look confused too when handing over the change. Now my wife just gives them a blank look and points to me.
in Taiwanese culture and elsewhere in Asua, it’s typical for the female household head to control the family finances, and hence probably why they do that.
hmm, that never came to my mind, could be interesting to observe the cashiers how they handle taiwanese couples standing in front of the counter. you think they will the give the change to the woman even though the man’s paying?
I’m not married, but I’ve been to places with a Taiwanese male friend and this same situation has occurred–they try to give the change to my friend instead of me. The first few times this happened I gave the clerk my best WTF? expression, but later I didn’t even bother. And to be honest, it hasn’t happened for quite awhile, so the times, they are a-changing.
EDIT: Eh, maybe hanna149’s explanation applies here as well
I have a friend like this back home, he works in finance but his wife deals with the household stuff. If he wants something he just asks his wife to sort it out. He always says he’s very happy without the stress