I found on my last visit to Beijing that the people there were very friendly and helpful. Came as a surprise. Maybe had something to do with the fact that I could speak Chinese with them, though.
Surprised to see Laos colored “unfriendly” on the map (where is the complete list?). I found the people of Laos among the friendliest ever.
Reality is most people are friendly and most cultures inherently good. It ain’t a big fucking deal that you smile and provide a bit of helpful assistance to an outsider, it is decent and shows a bit of character, but don’t go patting yourself too hard on the back.
Wanna see how nice you are to foreigners, see how they are treated in your legal system, see how they are described in your dialect, see how easy it is for them to get residency, citizenship etc.
In these areas of ‘friendliness’, the tangible ones that matter at the end of the day, Taiwan is a pretty cold, miserable place.
But hey, there’s always a smile for you my fat adohga friend!
Reality is most people are friendly and most cultures inherently good. It ain’t a big fucking deal that you smile and provide a bit of helpful assistance to an outsider, it is decent and shows a bit of character, but don’t go patting yourself too hard on the back.
Wanna see how nice you are to foreigners, see how they are treated in your legal system, see how they are described in your dialect, see how easy it is for them to get residency, citizenship etc.
In these areas of ‘friendliness’, the tangible ones that matter at the end of the day, Taiwan is a pretty cold, miserable place.
But hey, there’s always a smile for you my fat adohga friend![/quote]
If you want to rate it like that, just about every country is a cold miserable place. No country in the world treats foreigners fairly in their legal system nor do they make it easy to get residency.
Reality is most people are friendly and most cultures inherently good. It ain’t a big fucking deal that you smile and provide a bit of helpful assistance to an outsider, it is decent and shows a bit of character, but don’t go patting yourself too hard on the back.
Wanna see how nice you are to foreigners, see how they are treated in your legal system, see how they are described in your dialect, see how easy it is for them to get residency, citizenship etc.
In these areas of ‘friendliness’, the tangible ones that matter at the end of the day, Taiwan is a pretty cold, miserable place.
But hey, there’s always a smile for you my fat adohga friend![/quote]
If you want to rate it like that, just about every country is a cold miserable place. No country in the world treats foreigners fairly in their legal system nor do they make it easy to get residency.[/quote]
I can’t vouch for other countries, but the U.S. is pretty damn easy going on foreigners. You can show up pregnant and give birth to a child that instantly becomes a citizen, which will allow you to become a citizen too and bring over other family memebers. You can be there illegally and receive payments from the IRS for dependents after you file with a tax id that doesn’t require proof of citizenship to obtain. A couple of states still allow illegals to get driver licenses. You can have access to subsidized medical treatment and education. I’m sure I’m missing a lot of other perks available to those in the country illegally, not to mention naturalized citizens
Oh man, the US is not a good place to an illegal immigrant and actually has a harsh and slow legal immigration system. There are much better places to be a foreigner, legal or not, such as in most of Europe.
Being illegal is one thing, but it is damn near impossible to immigrate to the US legally, expect wait times of several decades and officials that just wants to deport you. It isn’t easy to immigrate to most European countries legally because they all have strict requirements for that, but they aren’t as condemning as American immigration system either.
Firstly, the US is a good place to be an illegal immigrant because in a very short time many of them will have their status changed to legal (there will be an amnesty). Also there is no shortage of work opportunities for illegals, and US airports leave the back door open so you are free to fuck off hassle free.
Europe??? :roflmao: :roflmao: Are you fucking kidding me? Oh yeah, those ultra tolerant countries like Italy, Greece, Spain and Germany are a grand fucking place for someone fleeing Africa. They treat their immigrants like utter dog shit, hell they even treat their sports heroes of color like dog shit, except on the nice days when they only throw bananas at them. Sometimes I think you post just to rabble rouse.
I didn’t say it was paradise, nor did I say that all immigrants or foreigners are treated the same.
Don’t forget there are 10s of disparate countries in the European community which have given freedom of movement, residence and work, that’s an unprecedented system worldwide. Just because we were born in Europe doesn’t mean we had to accept this system, or that it would automatically work out, it was something that was created to achieve peace and stability on the continent out of all of these fractious nations and ethnic groupings. There are 500 MILLION PEOPLE IN THE EU,MOST WITH THESE FREEDOMS AND HUMAN RIGHTS GUARANTEES, AN INCREDIBLE ACHIEVEMENT!
A person from Poland that moves to my country is an immigrant, as is a person from Austria or Czech republic. They are from Europe but they are also foreigners to us. The concept of European is a very new concept although it is growing quite rapidly.
There are questions still but by and large it’s been a successful experiment. Let’s see if they let Turkey in or not!
There are a large number of illegal immigrants from Africa, Pakistan and China etc, while they suffer discrimination, they also tend to find avenues to regularize themselves or they are given amnesties much easier than in the US. Obviously cultures and economic conditions vary enormously across Europe. Open racism is not condoned so much in Northern Europe, but appears more frequently in Southern Europe. However it must be remember that Southern Europe has also had to cope with an influx of millions of illegals, in times of economic depression, this is always going to be source of tension.
The last time the US gave illegal immigrants an amnesty was decades ago. Now illegals cannot get a drivers license and once caught are subjected to harsh punishments and deportations. The same can happen in Europe but to a much lesser degree, in general there is more due process and checks and balances.
The US will give a new amnesty after tightening up borders etc, it’s going to be the last one for a very long time if not forever.
[quote=“headhonchoII”]I didn’t say it was paradise, nor did I say that all immigrants or foreigners are treated the same.
Don’t forget there are 10s of disparate countries in the European community which have given freedom of movement, residence and work, that’s an unprecedented system worldwide. Just because we were born in Europe doesn’t mean we had to accept this system, or that it would automatically work out, it was something that was created to achieve peace and stability on the continent out of all of these fractious nations and ethnic groupings. There are 500 MILLION PEOPLE IN THE EU,MOST WITH THESE FREEDOMS AND HUMAN RIGHTS GUARANTEES, AN INCREDIBLE ACHIEVEMENT!
A person from Poland that moves to my country is an immigrant, as is a person from Austria or Czech republic. They are from Europe but they are also foreigners to us. The concept of European is a very new concept although it is growing quite rapidly.
There are questions still but by and large it’s been a successful experiment. Let’s see if they let Turkey in or not!
There are a large number of illegal immigrants from Africa, Pakistan and China etc, while they suffer discrimination, they also tend to find avenues to regularize themselves or they are given amnesties much easier than in the US. Obviously cultures and economic conditions vary enormously across Europe. Open racism is not condoned so much in Northern Europe, but appears more frequently in Southern Europe. However it must be remember that Southern Europe has also had to cope with an influx of millions of illegals, in times of economic depression, this is always going to be source of tension.
The last time the US gave illegal immigrants an amnesty was decades ago. Now illegals cannot get a drivers license and once caught are subjected to harsh punishments and deportations. The same can happen in Europe but to a much lesser degree, in general there is more due process and checks and balances.
The US will give a new amnesty after tightening up borders etc, it’s going to be the last one for a very long time if not forever.[/quote]
This being so friendly is quite a superficial thing with a lot of people here. Having said that I have seen some genuinely nice people here who would be nice to you regardless of who you were.
Friendliness, kindness, and warmth, whatever you like to call it, should be an innate quality regardless of external factors. For example, I am only nice to pretty girls that I think I might have a chance with, does that mean I am a nice person? no! It’s just means I am hoping to ingratiate myself with them.
One minute they are mumbling out “Hi”, “Thank You” and “Sorry” to show me ‘respect’ !, the next minute they are trying to kill me on the roads by being so inconsiderate and callous.
And why the need for validation that they are so friendly? Did someone say they are not?
[quote=“ryanx”]This being so friendly is quite a superficial thing with a lot of people here. Having said that I have seen some genuinely nice people here who would be nice to you regardless of who you were.
Friendliness, kindness, and warmth, whatever you like to call it, should be an innate quality regardless of external factors. For example, I am only nice to pretty girls that I think I might have a chance with, does that mean I am a nice person? no! It’s just means I am hoping to ingratiate myself with them.
One minute they are mumbling out “Hi”, “Thank You” and “Sorry” to show me ‘respect’ !, the next minute they are trying to kill me on the roads by being so inconsiderate and callous.
And why the need for validation that they are so friendly? Did someone say they are not?[/quote]
Couldn’t have say it any better. I think the friendliness is more politeness and kindness with some exaggeration, rather than true friendship.
The constant need for validation and proclamations from locals about how friendly they are has a lot to do with insecurity. The problem is it’s so prevalent, from my experience at least, and it is annoying. Many Taiwanese always tend to believe they are so friendly, so nice and so gracious, and everybody else is jealous f them or out to bully them.