[quote=“Taiwan Luthiers”]My Mandarin level is much better than the OP but had the same issue too.
If you can’t stick it out in the US (you can also work online even in the US) then come back to Taiwan, do your military (you may or may not like it… the cultural difference and defeatist attitude really gets me “Kill the commanding officer if China attacks and surrender”??) Then after military try and get yourself in the position of starting a business, because it’s the ONLY way to make any real money in Taiwan. Employed work pays like crap but will give experience. The problem with online work is that the income is often inconsistent.
Forget university… English programs favor foreigners and having a TW passport is actually a curse here. You would have to take the regular entrance exam, which I haven’t taken but if it’s anywhere near as hard as the exam for government jobs, you have NO chance. It would take at least 10 years at Shi-Da to be able to get to the point where you can have a chance at passing those exams. Remember most Taiwanese study at least 10 hours a day, going to cram schools, for the last 12 years in order to even do mediocre at those exams! Besides there are so many college grads here (many of whom actually have a degree at a US Ivy League school) that employers aren’t interested in hearing about which school you went to. If you have the right skill set they will hire you regardless of your degrees. Also, you don’t need a degree to start a business. If you really need a degree then you may consider University of Phoenix if you can afford it, but seriously I feel its a waste of time and money because I never really got to use the degree. In that case all they really want to see is your high school transcript from the US and they won’t make you take a TOFEL if you show them a US High School diploma, much easier than taking the Taiwan college entrance exam in my opinion.
About a 10 year ban, might as well consider it a lifetime ban because US is so paranoid that even a little smudge on your record is grounds for exclusion or refusal of visa/entry. Visa Wavier DOES NOT APPLY if you have ever overstayed, even once, and unlike many other countries, US actively deports and excludes those who overstayed as a child… they do not care. Although it does depend on who you talk to… because immigration guys (whoever at the window that is) have absolute power in deciding if you can get a visa.[/quote]
Thank you so much for this information, it sounds like you would understand how valuable knowing this is for me right now.
[quote=“914”]I feel for your situation, taiwan luthiers, i really do.
I have a q for the both of u boys, that is what do your parents say in all this? Theyre the ones who brought u to the usa and stayed for so long illegally, what they just expect u to live your lives there illegally? Did they have a plan? Are they in the usa still and what is their status? Or are they in taiwan now?
If u find this too intrusive, im sorry. Its just ive heard about this too often in taiwan and I wonder how the heck the parents, who caused this in e first place, expect their kids to move to a near foreign country they left as a young child, and hit the ground running?![/quote]
They feel guilty and bad but they did try and get me citizenship here, unfortunately luck wasn’t on our side (we went bankrupt at one point) so everything just kept getting worst. It was so hard for me when I was younger since there was so many things that my friends were able to do and I had to just sit back and watch. It is still hard now, watching them graduate from school already while I’ve been working everyday to save money for school tuition. I can’t say that I blame my parents for attempting to give me a better life they had, but that is not to say the situation could have been handled better if they were more well informed. But that is in the past and I can only look forward to what is in the future.