What Type of Girls do Taiwanese Boys Like?

Life Dating & Relationships
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[quote=“Alicelu”][quote=“tommy525”]Thank you, thats the idea. Getting married is one thing, staying married of course is the real test. :slight_smile:

My fiancee also doesnt like being shorter then most of her friends. I think shes the shortest and smallest in her class. But I think shes the cutest girl in her class.

So dont feel bad if u are short and small too. Theres someone out there that will like this about u.

im half taiwanese, half white.[/quote]

Nice gene!!![/quote]

Yup i like Levi’s and Wranglers

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[quote=“tommy525”][quote=“Alicelu”][quote=“tommy525”]Thank you, thats the idea. Getting married is one thing, staying married of course is the real test. :slight_smile:

My fiancee also doesnt like being shorter then most of her friends. I think shes the shortest and smallest in her class. But I think shes the cutest girl in her class.

So dont feel bad if u are short and small too. Theres someone out there that will like this about u.

im half taiwanese, half white.[/quote]

Nice gene!!![/quote]

Yup I like Levi’s and Wranglers[/quote]

I am lazy to speak or make any voice… :aiyo:

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Hi, I was born in Taiwan and I myself do not like Taiwanese or Chinese ladies. I prefer Western ladies. The situation is quite odd. Western men generally go for submissive Taiwanese or Chinese ladies who are trying to escape from Taiwanese/Chinese “mama-boys”. This leaves Western ladies in Asia very lonely so they often starting hanging out together and bitch about both Western men, and Taiwanese or Chinese ladies. One can see where the supply of available ladies lay?

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Meh. Boring stereotype. So not true.

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This is such an incredible oversimplification. You’d be surprised how many westerner-westerner couples are out there these days! :slight_smile:

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This is such an incredible oversimplification. You’d be surprised how many westerner-westerner couples are out there these days! :slight_smile:[/quote]

Ay-men. Not remotely, ever ‘lonely’ in Taipei. I’m a westerner and went out with other westerners, almost exclusively from my own country when I was in Taiwan. When I was hanging out with my female western friends, we absolutely never sat and bitched about western males and Taiwanese women. Good luck to any of em who found people they want to be with! Generally speaking, I love my western male pals’ partners. It’s a totally dumb fallacy that western women dislike Taiwanese women because these submissive oriental beauties snag all the hot western men. Jesus, it’s such an annoying, offensive opinion.

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[quote=“Alicelu”]
I am 150cm , 46 kilometers very short as well… [/quote]
46 kilometers & 150cm high is short? You gals must be godzilla and king kong… oh well, maybe the marshmallow girls that look cuter:

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To answer the OP’s question, probably this kind…

http://www.appledaily.com.tw/appledaily/article/headline/20130916/35298783/%E8%98%8B%E6%9E%9C%E7%89%B9%E5%AF%AB%EF%BC%9A%E6%99%BA%E5%88%A9%E5%AA%B3%E5%A9%A6%E7%95%B6%E5%BB%9F%E5%A9%86%E7%82%BA%E6%84%9B%E4%BE%86%E5%8F%B0%E6%94%B6%E9%A9%9A%E8%A7%A3%E7%B1%A4%E9%9B%A3%E4%B8%8D%E5%80%92

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:laughing: :bravo:

Them submissive ones are the wildest in bed though. And far less hairy than the European ones. :unamused:

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[quote=“Feiren”]To answer the OP’s question, probably this kind…

http://www.appledaily.com.tw/appledaily/article/headline/20130916/35298783/%E8%98%8B%E6%9E%9C%E7%89%B9%E5%AF%AB%EF%BC%9A%E6%99%BA%E5%88%A9%E5%AA%B3%E5%A9%A6%E7%95%B6%E5%BB%9F%E5%A9%86%E7%82%BA%E6%84%9B%E4%BE%86%E5%8F%B0%E6%94%B6%E9%A9%9A%E8%A7%A3%E7%B1%A4%E9%9B%A3%E4%B8%8D%E5%80%92[/quote]
whew!

i thought for sure that was winston woo link! :laughing:

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Well, I’ve just arrive in Taiwan (I am French by the way), and in my university guys looks so childish.

They dress in a “funny” way (not manly at all) and some of them have an attitude…
:sunglasses:

I don’t want to be harsh, I think they’re nice people.

But so not hot.

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[quote=“Aura”]Well, I’ve just arrive in Taiwan (I am French by the way), and in my university guys looks so childish.

They dress in a “funny” way (not manly at all) and some of them have an attitude…
:sunglasses:

I don’t want to be harsh, I think they’re nice people.

But so not hot.[/quote]

here’s some perspective for ya.

those ‘not manly’ guys want extremely feminine -and hot looking girls. most western women… don’t make the cut. not that i think it will bother you. but then there’s the western guys, who have gotten spoilt by the girls here that have become uber feminine and hot to suit those ‘not manly’ guys you mentioned. unless they are drop dead gorgeous and cool, western girls here are playing second fiddle. welcome to asia.

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[quote=“Lros”][quote=“Aura”]Well, I’ve just arrive in Taiwan (I am French by the way), and in my university guys looks so childish.

They dress in a “funny” way (not manly at all) and some of them have an attitude…
:sunglasses:

I don’t want to be harsh, I think they’re nice people.

But so not hot.[/quote]

here’s some perspective for ya.

those ‘not manly’ guys want extremely feminine -and hot looking girls. most western women… don’t make the cut. not that I think it will bother you. but then there’s the western guys, who have gotten spoilt by the girls here that have become uber feminine and hot to suit those ‘not manly’ guys you mentioned. unless they are drop dead gorgeous and cool, western girls here are playing second fiddle. welcome to asia.[/quote]

Decent looking western girls with a decent personality will attract plenty of men in TW, especially western blokes not overly fixated on Asian Olive Oyls who are often dull and intellectually void. They don’t have to be gorgeous. However,there are plenty of western guys in Asia who lack the confidence to pursue western girls they otherwise find appealing. Some stay away simply because they know they’re frauds

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Ahaha, I don’t need to attact “plenty of men”.

But I am don’t want a guy who spend so much time in front of a mirror.
:smiley:

A pretty face is not enough for me.

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Simply put, most Taiwanese guys can’t handle western women (myself included) :stuck_out_tongue:

Many find western women desirable, even preferable ! Just not enough confidence to make an approach.

A lot of Taiwanese men simply are not capable of making an approach , even on fellow Taiwanese girls, much less western women.

Taiwanese girls are fairly aggressive. If they see a guy they like, they often approach them.

If you are interested in a Taiwanese guy, don’t be afraid to approach him and talk to him. He may be very interested in you, but hell will freeze before he so much as says “hi” to you.

So don’t wait for that to happen.

Very few will come over and approach you. Most of them (myself included) would rather pet a leopard in the room then approach you and say “hi” .

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I get your idea Tommy.

But everyone is impressed by someone you find attractive. :sunglasses:

And from my point of view, if you don’t have the courage to talk to someone you like/care and make some effort…
When will you make effort then?

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[quote=“Aura”]Well, I’ve just arrive in Taiwan (I am French by the way), and in my university guys looks so childish.

They dress in a “funny” way (not manly at all) and some of them have an attitude…
:sunglasses:

I don’t want to be harsh, I think they’re nice people.

But so not hot.[/quote]

The probability of meeting many manly men at a university in any country must be pretty low. The odds of university students having an attitude is pretty high.

Off campus you’ll meet some more masculine Taiwanese guys. Seriously, the Taiwanese guys I hang around with make me look very effeminate. Well, in a kind of very ugly and smelly feminine way.

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[quote=“buzzkill1”][quote=“Lros”][quote=“Aura”]Well, I’ve just arrive in Taiwan (I am French by the way), and in my university guys looks so childish.

They dress in a “funny” way (not manly at all) and some of them have an attitude…
:sunglasses:

I don’t want to be harsh, I think they’re nice people.

But so not hot.[/quote]

here’s some perspective for ya.

those ‘not manly’ guys want extremely feminine -and hot looking girls. most western women… don’t make the cut. not that I think it will bother you. but then there’s the western guys, who have gotten spoilt by the girls here that have become uber feminine and hot to suit those ‘not manly’ guys you mentioned. unless they are drop dead gorgeous and cool, western girls here are playing second fiddle. welcome to asia.[/quote]

Decent looking western girls with a decent personality will attract plenty of men in TW, especially western blokes not overly fixated on Asian Olive Oyls who are often dull and intellectually void. They don’t have to be gorgeous. However,there are plenty of western guys in Asia who lack the confidence to pursue western girls they otherwise find appealing. Some stay away simply because they know they’re frauds[/quote]

  1. not true, because even the ‘decent’ looking girls are brought down several notches when compared to the local dull -but very attractive- girls. only the exceptional girls stand out, and i havent seen too many of them around.

  2. the number of westerners (and locals) not overly fixated on asian olive oyls who want some intellectual conversation is a massive minority. even if they profess not to be attracted to the locals and put them down with insults of their intelligence. the numbers show that they are probably just bullshitting on the whole, to themselves and to the western girls that they tell they prefer because they can have a decent conversation with, to help fix their battered ego.

  3. i think the asian girls play a bigger part in the western guys not going for western girls… they are more appealing, attractive, easier to date and lower maintenance. why would they bother going for stuck up western girls when this is the case? and if they actually do like western girls still, the inflated ego they have gotten from all the local attention would surely make it easier for them to ask out a westerner? in another thread a western girl was recently complaining about western guys arrogantly hitting on her, so it seems to be true. when i first went to china (where the locals are not up to the standard of taiwanese women, and where there are more, and better looking western women) i can also remember being pretty full of myself and asking out a fair few western girls. i didnt get anywhere but hey i certainly didn’t lack any confidence at that point.

tommy and aura:

the guys dont ask women out because it is the local style for the guys to play it cool. its more typical for the guys to insult the girl as a means of courting, than to ask her out. and that is what WORKS for them here. you can make fun of it and mock them for not being manly but it basically works. in their own environment (compared to ours at home) taiwanese guys can get girls - relatively attractive ones - by simply sitting on their ass. it doesn’t make sense that they would put in the comparatively massive effort to date the -not even that appealing to them anyway- western girls.

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Yes so true, bout half of the taiwanese ladies iv known have come up to me, rather then me making the approach.

Its fairly easy to approach taiwanese girls too. They know what you want, they are not stupid and they will let you know straight away if they are interested as well.

For me, growing up in Taiwan, it has always been my preference to date Taiwanese girls, even though i went to an American school where there were many white girls.

Its just so much easier, so much more things in common. Interests in common, etc.

And Taiwanese girls are not boring or empty. IF they are to you, its because you have not been able to connect on a deeper level due to your cultural and communication gap.

Now that my fiancee is Indonesian , rather then Taiwanese, I can see where our relationship can be said to be more “basic”. Due to her lack of English proficiency, and my inability to speak any Indonesian. We can’t have the conversations I see her having on skype with her buds back in Indo. Where she is animated, has tons to say and laughs a lot.

In between her conversations on skype, she connects with me and you can see its at a much more basic level.

In some ways this may be good. My last GF is TAiwanese , speaks english better then me and of course mandarin. We had no issues communicating in English and Mandarin. And this was 99pct good. But sometimes, resulted in arguments over subjects that were not really important to our relationship. She wanted to argue politics and religion and the such. And if I didn’t agree with her, she got pissed. I had to vote for her candidates ( i actually didn’t , i vote for who i wanted when at the ballot box, but i told her i voted for her candidates…yeah i lied, but i did not need the war).

So sometimes, its better to just communicate on a basic level.

:slight_smile:

Me like you, you like me, you go fix lunch. Great :slight_smile: Kisses all around. CAt gets them too. All good.

It’s not really that bad, i’m exaggerating here, but basically that’s the point. A bit of communication deficiency can keep you from arguing complex matters of little to no importance to your relationship.

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[quote=“Aura”]I get your idea Tommy.

But everyone is impressed by someone you find attractive. :sunglasses:

And from my point of view, if you don’t have the courage to talk to someone you like/care and make some effort…
When will you make effort then?[/quote]

Very true, we all go for people who we find attractive, even if that results in a real mess. And yes, if you do find him/her worth the effort, you have to make a move, if she doesn’t straight away.