I stayed for 18 years, and have been away for 10. The plan is to return.
I have know people with kids, who left for five years or so and then returned with the kids. I also know folks who stayed for 20 years and left and have not.
I laughed my ass off when her parents came for the birth of our youngest son…Said there were too many trees and they should be made into chopsticks…the look on some parts of my side of the family (think privileged but uber progressive island folk) was priceless…I made a joke about this song Bruce Cockburn - If A Tree Falls - YouTube
We can’t see wind, only the things it moves. Likewise, we can’t hear wind unless it’s flowing past something that makes it vibrate; this causes it to adopt various sonic guises depending on what it interacts with. Trees provide some of the most common and admired ways for wind to make itself heard. This sound has been termed psithurism (sith-err-iz-um).
I think vast majority of the ARC just does their time and leave. They’re migrant workers and don’t rally have any option to stay once they do their time.
Then you got the westerners who comes, teaches english, then leaves.
Which makes it suck even more for me as I can’t just leave and never return. Taiwan is the eye of the storm. Once you are inside you can never get out despite heroic efforts.