Why are Westerners such fools for Taiwanese girls?

I too am a Westerner, but I’m not going to be a sucker. We all know how beautiful
they can be, but also know how much of a headache it can also be. I’ve met some
great, professional,under 30, Taiwanese women, but they have never dated (or are)
a Westerner. They seem to be in serious relationship with another Taiwanese.
My question is:
Is it impossible for a Westerner to date a bright Taiwanese woman with a good job, and
is under 30?

I have friends that seem to get latched onto Taiwanese women at bars, and hence why
we consider the women not so good. But it gets back to; where are the decent women?
(I think its important to add, that most in this case , and myself, are not fluent in Chinese.
We may study at a school, but nowhere near competent.)
I said good job, cuz many are between jobs or trying to find something else, which leads
me to believe that they view dating a Westerner as a means to an end. Back home I would
never date a woman that did not date me for me. Anyways, the question has been posed
and prove its impossible to meet a successful woman.

To answer your question:
I hate George Bush! Did not vote for him, and will never vote for a man fond
of war. Although serving is respectable, but being old and stupid is another
issue.-sorry McCain, respect you but don’t want an old fart leading us into the
post Bu(ll)sh(it) future.
As for my bad English. Its simply bad. I don’t teach writing, and will never.
Hope that conveys the point enough. This might help in determining I’m a true
American, and I am not of Asian decent.
Hearings back in 1999(?). What do you mean by “is”?

The short answer is fairly simple: Pussy.

Most dudes who come here aren’t prepared for the fuckery they need to put up with when it pertains to the pooter.

Different world, Boy-O.

Ask a Cat why they’re here. Internet porn and hopes of grandeurs (sp)? Or did they date one Asian chickita back home that gave them the ever lasting stiffy?

Either way…the game is different here.

I’ve known men/boys here that are above average good looks and pass as beach boys and yet they fall ass over tea kettle for women here because they’ve never had a sexual + cultural experience and would sell their left nut to keep the lady. I, myself, included. 'Cept when you spend time here…you learn to play the game on house rules.

Happens…oh and Welcome to Asia.

[quote]Is it impossible for a Westerner to date a bright Taiwanese woman with a good job, and
is under 30?
[/quote]
No, although it does help if you can hide the fact that you’re an arsehole, at least until the wedding. Some of the more naive Western kids here seem to find that to be inordinately difficult to do, though.

Why are Westerners such fools for Taiwanese girls???
And why is it impossible for a Westerner to date a bright non-Taiwanese woman with a good job, university degree, Chinese, English, German, Russian and is under 30?

its a little difficult in Taiwan…there aren’t so many of you.

I should never have left the Navy… :frowning:

[quote=“sandman”][quote]Is it impossible for a Westerner to date a bright Taiwanese woman with a good job, and
is under 30?
[/quote]
No, although it does help if you can hide the fact that you’re an arsehole, at least until the wedding. [/quote]

Well, that is exactly what many TW women do, so why not? Just pretend to be who the person wants you to be, then become your ‘true’ self once the sucker has married you.

Have fun, boys! :stuck_out_tongue:

[quote=“calitotaiwan”]I too am a Westerner, but I’m not going to be a sucker.

Back home I would never date a woman that did not date me for me. Anyways, the question has been posed
and prove its impossible to meet a successful woman.[/quote]

Yes we know we know.

We found this alleged recording of you when you last met some gals who gave their answering machine number.

holytaco.com/2008/06/27/the- … n-history/

[quote=“calitotaiwan”]I too am a Westerner, but I’m not going to be a sucker. We all know how beautiful
they can be, but also know how much of a headache it can also be. I’ve met some
great, professional,under 30, Taiwanese women, but they have never dated (or are)
a Westerner. They seem to be in serious relationship with another Taiwanese.
My question is:
Is it impossible for a Westerner to date a bright Taiwanese woman with a good job, and
is under 30?

I have friends that seem to get latched onto Taiwanese women at bars, and hence why
we consider the women not so good. But it gets back to; where are the decent women?
(I think its important to add, that most in this case , and myself, are not fluent in Chinese.
We may study at a school, but nowhere near competent.)
I said good job, cuz many are between jobs or trying to find something else, which leads
me to believe that they view dating a Westerner as a means to an end. Back home I would
never date a woman that did not date me for me. Anyways, the question has been posed
and prove its impossible to meet a successful woman.[/quote]

Why do they need to have a good job? Why can’t they just be S.E.X.Y !!

[color=green]Stay on topic please.[/color]

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[quote=“lupillus”][color=green]Stay on topic please.[/color]

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Right, sor… HOLY HELL WHAT IS THAT THING IN YOUR AVATAR.

[quote=“KingZog”]
Right, sor… HOLY HELL WHAT IS THAT THING IN YOUR AVATAR.[/quote]
Same goes, big nose!

Long live the true King of Albania!

Varmit!

I think I am exceptionally lucky. Actually, exceptional pretty well doesn’t even begin to describe my luck. Perhaps it’s just that my girlfriend got played by some idiots before and I treat her well without being pathetic. Dunno.

Anyway, went through two bimbos, and now I’m with a girl well under 30 who seems to have all of the good points of Taiwanese girls, but none of the bad points. For example, she’s incredibly sexy and feminine but hasn’t crossed any Hello Kitty lines of absurdity yet and probably never will. She’s incredibly open-minded about most things and is really adventurous. I introduced her to mountain biking and she loved it. Shock horror, a Taiwanese girl who does exercise. I take her surfing with me too, though she just uses a bodyboard. Still pretty cool. She’s going to do the Sun Moon Lake swim with me in August. Stuff like that. She’s really arty too (which is probably helpful considering she’s a design student). I introduced her to some of the old, good stuff like Miles Davis, Curtis Mayfield, Stevie Wonder and Nick Drake, and I’ve taken her to a rave.

My girl rocks. There are actually some really cool Taiwanese girls out there, you just have to exercise some judgement.

I have been with a girl who is in her early 20s, smart, very nice, pretty and modest, has a degree from a good university and works in international trade. I didn’t meet her at a bar, heck she doesn’t even drink. That’s the problem imo with meeting Taiwanese girls, they don’t seem to make themselves very available unless they are one of those “foreigner’s girls”.

Well, I think it takes a little bit of time and a lot of luck to meet someone really special here. I actually got chatted up by sorts of my GF and although neither of us are under 30 any more (although just over), I have to say that I was really lucky to meet her. She’s not at all typically Taiwanese, she’s not a pretend to be something she’s not kind of person and she’s got a great job.

Yes, a lot of girls here seem to want to meet a foreginer, she has a friend that is like that, but yet they never put themselves in a situation where they could meet one. Her friend might not be the catch of the year, but I’m sure she could find someone is she bothered. I also think a lot of Taiwanese girls have too high expectations a lot of the time, like out of this world kind of expectations. They don’t seem to understand that if they want a guy like that, they have to meet his expectations as well, which I think a lot of them have no intention of ever doing.

Just my two cents, but I know it’s possible to meet someone really great here, although I had one not so great encounter here as the girl got more and more demanding the longer we stayed together. I also meet a few girls that turned into nothing, but it wasn’t really either persons fault, it just wasn’t meant to be.

[quote=“calitotaiwan”]I too am a Westerner, but I’m not going to be a sucker. We all know how beautiful
they can be, but also know how much of a headache it can also be. I’ve met some
great, professional,under 30, Taiwanese women, but they have never dated (or are)
a Westerner. They seem to be in serious relationship with another Taiwanese.
My question is:
Is it impossible for a Westerner to date a bright Taiwanese woman with a good job, and
is under 30?

I have friends that seem to get latched onto Taiwanese women at bars, and hence why
we consider the women not so good. But it gets back to; where are the decent women?
(I think its important to add, that most in this case , and myself, are not fluent in Chinese.
We may study at a school, but nowhere near competent.)
I said good job, cuz many are between jobs or trying to find something else, which leads
me to believe that they view dating a Westerner as a means to an end. Back home I would
never date a woman that did not date me for me. Anyways, the question has been posed
and prove its impossible to meet a successful woman.[/quote]

Most of the women I know are approaching their 30’s. And they are up and about and wanting to get married - so they say - but are still playing sixteen. I guess they are just too outgoing.

Point is I’m hearing a lot of the I’m almost 30 blah complex. I now know why.

Look at God’s greatest creation, the female spider monkey. No witchdoctor spidermonkeyguru told them they couldn’t give birth after 10, so guess what, they do.

[quote] Is it impossible for a Westerner to date a bright Taiwanese woman with a good job, and
is under 30? [/quote]

Perhaps you should try women in their 30’s, they still look great! Not sure what you mean by a good job, but it’s no surprise that these women are not exactly stable in their 20’s, not many people are. Men, women, westerners, most of us are all just working our way up to something in our 20’s.

If you’re not meeting enough “good women”, perhaps you’re just not meeting enough women. Just a numbers game and the same as anywhere else.