Not sure about “large” RO systems… but I have an under-sink one (have recently moved back to US but still hang around this thread for some reason)
Recommended filter change is once per year and cost $30-100 per set. Electricity use is minimal (only to power the UV lamp). The pump doesn’t actually require electricity… Google it, I was sort of surprised when I didn’t see a cable coming out of the pump.
RO takes everything out as you know. Then you have to put some minerals back in, by way of a remineralisation stage.
So you have to entrust a corporation, and their supply chain, to remineralise your water, that is every mL of what you and your family drink every day, in perpetuity.
Some people seem to think RO is the gold standard. But for me I think RO comes down to whether you can stomach this risk.