Original Title: Do you think Taiwan will ever be like this?
I just read this article about how a brothel in Germany is closing its doors because there is no market for brothels in Germany anymore.
I have visions of a country where sex is a normal thing that people do, and that a woman who enjoys sex is not considered a deviant. Where boyfriends and husbands are actually getting some :scooby: at home and don’t have to travel to a jiudian to get their jollies. Where dance clubs are full of girls who actually enjoy sex and aren’t shamed for saying so, and where a single guy can go and hope to meet a normal, healthy, well-adjusted girl who is not a slag and take her home for a night of fun that she doesn’t have to pretend she doesn’t enjoy.
So when will it happen here? When is Taiwan going to get their sexual revolution? Can you imagine what a beautiful country Taiwan would be if all of the hostess clubs no longer existed because a man could go out and get it for free?
Tsk Tsk Taiwan ladies. If you want the red-light districts to close down it is up to you!
[quote=“trebuchet”]Original Title: Do you think Taiwan will ever be like this?
I just read this article about how a brothel in Germany is closing its doors because there is no market for brothels in Germany anymore.
I have visions of a country where sex is a normal thing that people do, and that a woman who enjoys sex is not considered a deviant. Where boyfriends and husbands are actually getting some :scooby: at home and don’t have to travel to a jiudian to get their jollies. Where dance clubs are full of girls who actually enjoy sex and aren’t shamed for saying so, and where a single guy can go and hope to meet a normal, healthy, well-adjusted girl who is not a slag and take her home for a night of fun that she doesn’t have to pretend she doesn’t enjoy.[/quote]
Yeah, mate. I share your vision.
Problem is, many Western countries HAVE HAD their so-called revolution, but to no real avail. Most people are still ashamed of shagging. It still carries the unfortunate idea that men that get laid are “heros” and the women are nothing short of whores…
Only some European countries seem to be truly liberal about the whole sex thing.
Well, once again. Something that other countries can also learn. First step is to just legalise prostitution and allow things like red light districts. It’s not long before it’s no longer a funny thing and most of the clientele are tourists.
[quote=“trebuchet”]Original Title: Do you think Taiwan will ever be like this?
I just read this article about how a brothel in Germany is closing its doors because there is no market for brothels in Germany anymore.
I have visions of a country where sex is a normal thing that people do, and that a woman who enjoys sex is not considered a deviant. Where boyfriends and husbands are actually getting some :scooby: at home and don’t have to travel to a jiudian to get their jollies. Where dance clubs are full of girls who actually enjoy sex and aren’t shamed for saying so, and where a single guy can go and hope to meet a normal, healthy, well-adjusted girl who is not a slag and take her home for a night of fun that she doesn’t have to pretend she doesn’t enjoy.
So when will it happen here? When is Taiwan going to get their sexual revolution? Can you imagine what a beautiful country Taiwan would be if all of the hostess clubs no longer existed because a man could go out and get it for free?
Tsk Tsk Taiwan ladies. If you want the red-light districts to close down it is up to you![/quote]
I don’t know about you, but it seems to me that the reason why brothels in Germany are losing business has nothing to do with ‘healthy sexuality’, at least the way you view it:
[quote]She blamed the decline in business on easily available Internet porn, the rise of call-girl services, and “noisy discos and dance clubs” on the same street as her business, the newspapers reported.
“You can’t make any big money selling sex in St. Pauli any more,” she was quoted as saying, referring to the area that includes the red-light district. “The only thing still in operation are the table dance clubs.”[/quote]
[quote=“trebuchet”]Original Title: Do you think Taiwan will ever be like this?
I just read this article about how a brothel in Germany is closing its doors because there is no market for brothels in Germany anymore.
I have visions of a country where sex is a normal thing that people do, and that a woman who enjoys sex is not considered a deviant. Where boyfriends and husbands are actually getting some :scooby: at home and don’t have to travel to a jiudian to get their jollies. Where dance clubs are full of girls who actually enjoy sex and aren’t shamed for saying so, and where a single guy can go and hope to meet a normal, healthy, well-adjusted girl who is not a slag and take her home for a night of fun that she doesn’t have to pretend she doesn’t enjoy.
So when will it happen here? When is Taiwan going to get their sexual revolution? Can you imagine what a beautiful country Taiwan would be if all of the hostess clubs no longer existed because a man could go out and get it for free?
Tsk Tsk Taiwan ladies. If you want the red-light districts to close down it is up to you![/quote]
Your idea sounds less like healthy sexuality to me and more like a sixteen year old boy’s utopia. Or a moto from the seventies. And if you think that Taiwan is in any measure sexually uptight, come spend a week or two in the Amerian Bible Belt. You won’t even be able to cum unless your on your knees at the foot of the Virgen. (I can’t believe I just wrote that!)
[quote=“housecat”][quote=“trebuchet”]Original Title: Do you think Taiwan will ever be like this?
I just read this article about how a brothel in Germany is closing its doors because there is no market for brothels in Germany anymore.
I have visions of a country where sex is a normal thing that people do, and that a woman who enjoys sex is not considered a deviant. Where boyfriends and husbands are actually getting some :scooby: at home and don’t have to travel to a jiudian to get their jollies. Where dance clubs are full of girls who actually enjoy sex and aren’t shamed for saying so, and where a single guy can go and hope to meet a normal, healthy, well-adjusted girl who is not a slag and take her home for a night of fun that she doesn’t have to pretend she doesn’t enjoy.
So when will it happen here? When is Taiwan going to get their sexual revolution? Can you imagine what a beautiful country Taiwan would be if all of the hostess clubs no longer existed because a man could go out and get it for free?
Tsk Tsk Taiwan ladies. If you want the red-light districts to close down it is up to you![/quote]
Your idea sounds less like healthy sexuality to me and more like a sixteen year old boy’s utopia.[/quote]
That basically defines most men’s attitude towards sex. On par with a 16 year old boy…
:bravo: Well said. Taiwanese may be openly conservative, but I have yet to meet one that stayed that way behind closed doors…
Was there in 1967 in Seattle, Columbus, Atlanta and a few other small towns across America. Maybe you missed it.
Do you have reddish hair and a pot belly ( a little fat) Maybe we are related. hehbehehehehhe. But she (your mama) was a good woman.( Dr. Mamoy)
As for the little debate above about the number of Taiwanese women who are (or are not) conservative behind closed doors, I think a big factor is indeed “who is going to find out.” With “face” and all of that, the inhibitions can be more rigid. When there is very little chance of anyone finding out about what might go in the bedroom, sure, I think things can be very interesting indeed. Of course, another HUGE factor for women (duh–I know this is obvious) is the whole “does he really love me or not” question. But that doesn’t make someone a prude the way a Bible-Belt Brainwashing can!
[quote=“housecat”][quote=“trebuchet”]
And yes Housecat, grown men don’t grow up.[/quote]
This is so depressing! Every woman knows this, of course, but it’s still depressing.[/quote]
Give Over!
It’s not like women have no past issues, at all.
No, they live entirely in the future tense.
Well, almost.
Both men & women carry past baggage, some more weighty than others, that should have been flotsamed long ago. To even suggest that men & women are are not equal in this regard is a political statement. Why split hairs about the means used to tack & weave?
The ends are pretty much the same.
[quote=“TheGingerMan”][quote=“housecat”][quote=“trebuchet”]
And yes Housecat, grown men don’t grow up.[/quote]
This is so depressing! Every woman knows this, of course, but it’s still depressing.[/quote]
Give Over!
It’s not like women have no past issues, at all.
No, they live entirely in the future tense.
Well, almost.
Both men & women carry past baggage, some more weighty than others, that should have been flotsamed long ago. To even suggest that men & women are are not equal in this regard is a political statement. Why split hairs about the means used to tack & weave?
The ends are pretty much the same.[/quote]
Given and depressed. Call it baggage if you like. It is pretty heavey!
“Women don’t want it” is bullshit in my experience. They want it just as badly as we do. They just have to pretend they’re coy in order to protect their reputations. Discreetness is the key, boys…
And remember that not all guys are going to jump on every available woman there is. Oh yes, in our fantasies, we think that, but if a woman actually throws herself at an average guy in real life, the average guy is going to be like, “Uh…ah…errr…uh…what the hell is going on?..err…errrm…”
Yes, any woman who’s been extremely bold knows exactly what I’m talking about. The thing is, us guys want it, but the shock of an attractive woman just throwing it at you is such a big shock, that we’re totally shocked into a catonic state. “You’re so sexy when you’re so confused and don’t know what to do,” were the exact words the hot Polish girl biting my ears off said to me. Err, well, you know, European women aren’t exactly the same as Asian women…sigh. So there - I just proved the OP’s point. No Chinese girl would ever act that honestly and directly towards me. But a European girl would, and did. So when is honest sexuality ever going to come to Taiwan?
[quote=“Quentin”]“Women don’t want it” is bullshit in my experience. They want it just as badly as we do. They just have to pretend they’re coy in order to protect their reputations. Discreetness is the key, boys…
And remember that not all guys are going to jump on every available woman there is. Oh yes, in our fantasies, we think that, but if a woman actually throws herself at an average guy in real life, the average guy is going to be like, “Uh…ah…errr…uh…what the hell is going on?..err…errrm…”
Yes, any woman who’s been extremely bold knows exactly what I’m talking about. The thing is, us guys want it, but the shock of an attractive woman just throwing it at you is such a big shock, that we’re totally shocked into a catonic state. “You’re so sexy when you’re so confused and don’t know what to do,” were the exact words the hot Polish girl biting my ears off said to me. Err, well, you know, European women aren’t exactly the same as Asian women…sigh. So there - I just proved the OP’s point. No Chinese girl would ever act that honestly and directly towards me. But a European girl would, and did. So when is honest sexuality ever going to come to Taiwan?[/quote]
Surely not the good looking girls in Eslite and at the library though? Only them slags what go dancing in clubs!
White girls are very, very different from Asian girls. If a white girls likes you, she practically slams herself against you. White girls are very, very obvious. I don’t even have to try with them. Asian girls are very different. I actually have to pursue them! It’s very frustrating. They pretend to be shy and demure all the time. I’m too much of a gentleman to pursue girls that obviously don’t like me. So Asian girls, who pretend to give no signals whatsoever, I don’t do anything to them, because I don’t want to come across as a predatory asshole.
:bravo: Well said. Taiwanese may be openly conservative, but I have yet to meet one that stayed that way behind closed doors…