That’s why you need a “Plan B”. Sometimes a carefully planned lesson falls to pieces. (Most likely because the kids were bored or restless, or unprepared at the very start so never got into the material that probably would have worked if they could ever have gotten in to it.)
You have to be prepared to stop what you’re doing and change directions when things aren’t going well. With younger students having shorter activities is a must. If a 15 minute activity flops you’re in trouble. If one 3 or 5 minute activity flops, you can rally them with something active and then come back to the next two short activities.
[quote]But, my main question is this:
How do you know when it’s not a case of not working hard or smart enough?
How do you know when you just should stop working?
I’m putting in a lot of time preparing for my adult classes, and it just doesn’t seem to be going well at all. I don’t feel any sort of connection with my students or the material I’m supposed to be teaching.[/quote]
At first you really do need to put in a lot of extra time. And you need to give yourself time. This is a different environment than what you’re used to.
It’s also possible that you’re over-planning or trying to do too much. Perhaps concentrate more on one or two things and not worry about the rest until you’ve become comfortable with the one or two. (I know that’s generic advice, but it could be applicable.)
And you know, it may even be that you got a lemon class. Some classes are just DULL and are black holes for teacher energy. But don’t accept that until you’ve had other classes that eat up the same lessons you’re giving them and you’ve tried everything.