Yahoo Messenger Rats on me ..says I'm on Forumosa

I’m typing away to some friends in the states and they’re asking me… What’s Forumosa. My secret identity is discovered… Seriously…

How is it telling people I’m on this site? How could I stop it? Are any wanderings to yellow sites also broadcast?

When on the internet and you wish to live two lives, be very careful with each and every word you put out before clicking the send button. This and all forums gets spidered regularly and are indexed by google and others, so if you want to have a secret identity don’t make anything connect.

Switch over to a different messaging program?