update:
Last night my new school sent me two forms they wanted me to print out and bring to my current school today or tomorrow. They are already in the process of preparing for my work permit. The forms are in Chinese and English and are basically agreements to cancel my contract without any further issues between myself or the school. It would have been nice to go ahead and have the permit secure before showing them these forms, but this is what the new school wanted me to do.
I called in sick today and went to the doctor to confirm that I have bronchitis. Got a note. Called current school and told them I wanted to have a meeting with both managers and the owner. The manager sounded really upset on the phone and kept asking if it had something to do with the contract I haven’t signed yet.
I gave her very basic detail and then we agreed to meet. They told me the owner was unavailable tonight but I strongly suspect he was hanging around the school.
Anyway here’s how the meeting went:
First I gave them my doctors note just to prove that I was not lying about being sick, though I don’t even know why I care at this point.
Then I told them I apologize but because of health reasons and also because I believe the school is not a good fit for me, I will be resigning. I told them I am willing to work until next Friday if need be and showed them the forms. Wow, I could not believe all the flattery that came out of their mouths. First they told me I was just feeling sick and next week I’d feel better and I’d want to stay at the school. I said no. Then they told me what a great teacher I am, how my teaching gets better every day, etc. etc. I said I apologize but I still want to leave. They asked me to stay until after our graduation play (Aug 22) I reiterated the previous point. They asked me what I had against them personally and I said there are just various things with the school and I don’t feel I am a good fit. After the flattery, they tried attacking on an emotional level.
They said I am breaking my contract on very short notice and it wasn’t right, and I said that legally I’ve only been working for them one month so in fact, I don’t really owe them any notice. Then they tried questioning me about that “Teacher, what do you mean you have only been working here legally one month” and I just looked at them and kinda laughed and said they understand perfectly well what I’m talking about. They kept trying to hit the moral button with me. To be honest, I do feel guilty as I tend to feel guilty about many things but in this case I explained that while I feel bad my physical health and happiness are important right now. They tried telling me my students would be upset.
Management: What about your students, don’t you care what they think?
Me: My G class (junior high level kids) do not like me anyway. They won’t care.
Management goes silent then says a little more angrily: What about your kindergarten class, don’t you feel bad leaving them when they just had a teacher leave not long ago?
Me: I love the children and I do feel bad but they will be fine and I’m sure they won’t notice that much.
Management looking pretty irritated by this point.
I apologized again of course, trying to smooth the ruffles. They stated it wasn’t fair what I was doing to them and how would they get a teacher on such short notice? I explained that the recruiter who brought me here is overloaded with applications and they would have no problem finding a replacement teacher.
Management: But training will take a long time, it will take a month.
Me: You trained me in three days.
More silence from management.
They asked me AGAIN to stay until they find a new teacher and I said no, I cannot. They AGAIN said I was being unfair.
I told them it was unfair to withhold my ARC and we got into that again. They are insisting it arrived two days ago and they didn’t give it to me because I was “sleeping” at my desk (my head was down on break because of my sickness) and they didn’t want to disturb me. Of course, I know this is BS. They got ruffled and insisted they are not trying to cheat me. She insisted she could prove to me she wasn’t hiding it and I could call this number, etc.
Anyway, they told me they will talk to the manager tonight and have a meeting with me tomorrow if I agree to come into work for the full day. I said that I may or may not come in because of my illness and if possible I’m sure we could meet early evening tomorrow.
They asked me if I would be staying in Taiwan and going to teach for another school and I told them I didn’t know.
Then they asked me if the other teachers know I’m leaving and of course I had to lie about that. I think they’re freaked, hoping I won’t tell the others what happened. But of course, most of them know about it.
When I left I thanked them for speaking with me and they just stared at me like I was from another planet. Throughout the meeting I kept stating that I don’t want any issues and want to leave peacefully.
I’m sure I’ve probably not gone about things the best way and I’m sure I will still be cheated out of a lot of pay but at this point I just want them to sign the contract and let me go so I can move on to a much happier place with the new school.
Thanks to everyone who gave me all the detailed advice yesterday. If I had more time I would have followed the suggestions properly. I prob will call the labor board after the dust clears.
Will let everyone know what happens…