I enjoyed my single years very much. In fact, I never planned to get married. I had my first professional job in Singapore after Grad School in the UK [well second jobâŚworking in Brussels was more drinking than working ). I tell you, being 21, slightly cocky, and making pretty good coin in Singapore was a lot of funâŚlots of pretty Malay, Chinese, Eurasian, Indian, and mixed womenâŚwith a good income and good credentials, you can exploit a lot of materialistic lasses in Singapore [women in that country live for the 5 Câsâcareer, condo, club, credit card, and car ) âŚTaiwan was a lot of fun when I was single as wellâŚbut when you meet the right one, everything changes. For me, I knew it was the right one when I hardly knew her and she accompanied me to the hospital for some very painful tests during a health scare back in 2003. A great mother and a nurturer. I also knew when I found out she preferred books and painting to shopping for clothes that I had found a keeper.[/quote]
[quote]For me, I knew it was the right one when I hardly knew her and she accompanied me to the hospital for some very painful tests during a health scare back in 2003. A great mother and a nurturer[/quote].
Thatâs why I like my missus - there every day in the shitty hospital, with food etc. (Chinese hospital - donât provide food). Spent the first night at my bed.
Heh - I had surgery on my ear a few years back. Wife spent the first night in my bed. Doctors were a little surprised in the morning when they pulled back the curtains to find us both snuggled together. Fortunately, we were still both clothed!
I wouldnt have a problem raising someone elseâs child if I loved the woman. And particularly if the child is young. A child is a child, you can still be his/her father even if its not your sperm.