(It seems every year I post a message, without getting further)
I am now 5 years separated. My wife sometimes agrees, than not to divorce.
In June 2004 we had the last attempt to sign the divorce paper. All seemed ok. I had found a wittness and she would bring her friend. She only (!!!) requested that I pay the lunch. I agreed.
It should be on Thursday to sign! On Tuesday she calls and asked how is our son. I wondered about that question and said he is fine. He was sick on Monday she said. I said no, …
I went out to office on Monday early, and my son felt asleep again, … .and he decided to be “sick”.
This my wife used than that I cannot take care of him and that signing of the divorce is not anymore, …
Now she changed from Buddhism to Christian and said, there is no divorce, …
My son told me that she is going to Bangladesh to teach there English. I was very suspicious about that. She said she will go to Bangladesh for 6 months. She should get there a salary of 100,000 NT$ per month.
During the last school year a friend of her came to school to visit my son. My son never saw her before. She gave him some cookies and told him that his mother will stay in Bangladesh longer, …
During Chinese New Year she did not contact him, neither by email, phone or visit. I am 15 years in Taiwan, I never saw that a Chinese would miss to contact relatives during Chinese New Year.
In March I went to police and said to the police that I don’t know where she is, that my son miss her and that she might be abroad.
The police officer checked the computer and said that she NEVER left Taiwan. He suggested me to file a missing person. I did.
I have no way to contact her, I not even know where she is. She does not want to sign the divorce paper anyway. She is still registered (with me) in Linkou, our house we bought, but she sold it in the meantime.
I heard that she need to contact me now within 6 months. That would be September.
I am considering to leave Taiwan. Would that be a solution towards a later divorce without her consent?
I know that I may not have a girl friend, since I am still married. Could I have a girl friend if I leave Taiwan?