To Mucha Man:
First of all, everyone is entitled to their opinion but there is certainly no need to make gross generalization about someone you don’t know at all. Refrain from using language like “you Taiwanese parents…” or imply that the reason I send my child to an all-day preschool is because I’m lazy and don’t want to spend time with my kids.
Not that I have to justify myself to you but, my kids are biracial and because it is important that they can speak both Chinese and English fluently, and because they will be attending the local public school, we felt it is important to make sure she has a solid foundation in English before she’s put in an all-day Chinese environment. The only way she will improve her English proficiency is by being in an all-day English environment. She comes home and speaks Chinese/English with me and English with her dad. The reason she’s in school from 9-3:30 (which is hardly all-day by Taiwanese standards now that I’ve seen how long kids stay in so-called "schools/buxiban and wherever else they go after school lets out) is because she needs to learn to socialize with other kids her age, and play with kids her age instead of hanging out with me all day. My son goes to the public elementary school and except for Tuesdays (which is all-day), he comes home at noon, eats lunch at home, does his homework under my supervision. He takes soccer and taikuando twice a week because he loves taking these classes. He doesn’t go to an anquin or buxiban class or is being cared for by a non-Chinese speaking nanny. So, don’t tell me what a bad, Taiwanese parent I am. Are you even a parent yourself? And what fabulous things have you done recently for your child/children that we should all learn from since you seem to think you are the authority on how to be a GOOD, competent parent?
You really need to think before you speak, or type, in this case. I am OFFENDED by your generalization and assumptions about ALL Taiwanese parents being lazy and not wanting to spend time with their kids or are making poor decisions to send their kids off to these unlicensed schools (which are not true so I don’t know why, again, you’re making generalizations). There are many factors contributing to a child’s poor performance at school, anything from being left with a nanny to the child being raised by grandparents to the child being raised by anyone other than his or her own parents to just the child not getting the proper academic guidance or something as simple as lack of proper nutrition and sleep. The child could also be not very self-motivated. Each child is unique and the reasons that contribute to his/her poor performance may be different. So for you to say,
“They banned English bilingual pre-schools because of the very real negative impact they were having on students. Seems you Taiwanese parents don’t spend enough time with your kids (hence the need for all these all-day preschools). Too many kids were going to these schools, being exposed all day to English, and then returning home to the care of a nanny who as often as not was not a Chinese speaker. Children were entering grade one with Chinese ability far below their peers because in many cases they were only in a Chinese-speaking environment on weekends.”
Is ignorant. You’re also not making sense in the above statement. On the one hand, you’re calling these English bilingual preschools and then two sentences later you’re saying too many kids were going to these schools, being exposed all day to English. If it’s bilingual, then how are they exposed all day to English? So speaking English all day is contributing to their low performance in Chinese? If that’s not an ignorant statement, I don’t know what is.
Every parent makes a decision that is best suited for their family situation. Both parents may have to work full time in order to pay for their standard of living, which creates the need for all day preschools. Public kindergartens have VERY limited space and usually reserved for disadvantaged families. And, even some public kindergartens will hire a native English speaker to come in once or twice a week to read English stories to the kids. There is NOTHING wrong with wanting your kids to have a jump start in life and give them the best money can buy. Every study has shown that a solid early childhood education gives the child an edge on life and kids between the ages of 3-7 can easily pick up another language, far easier than a child who’s older or an adult. What it comes down to is the parent doing his/her homework to find the most optimal school that can provide that. And if you’re going to learn English, why wouldn’t you learn from a native English speaker?
The debate about the legality of teaching English in preschools is purely a political one. They want you to think how detrimental it is to teach English to preschoolers, God for bid, they forgot how to speak Chinese or can’t keep up when they go to first grade? Rather than examining the bigger societal issues or reasons contributing to a child’s poor academic performance, English or bilingual preschools have become the scapegoat. If you’re not a parent who wants to spend time with your child, English preschools or not, you will find a way to send them somewhere else or find someone else to raise your child. What does English have to do with it?
Early childhood education is, hands down, important. I’m just offering my opinion about a school that I feel has a good environment for learning in general and offers the kind of curriculum I was seeking for my child and also because I’ve seen other parents looking for this type of school/learning environment. For your information, more than half of the kids there are non-Taiwanese so I guess the laziness in the parents spans across international boundaries.
I’m not sure what “unlicensed” businesses you’re talking about and how this post has become my advocating parents to send their kids to “unlicensed” businesses. Stop generalizing people, especially using sentences like, “you Taiwanese parents”. Are you even a parent? If you’re not, don’t presume to know what it’s like to be a parent or tell me how to do my job! I totally recent the fact that you accuse me or any other parent for “emotionally scarring their children for life” because we want them to have a head start in life. It’s extreme attitudes like yours that’s going to do more harm to kids than a parent trying to give their child the best in life in the best way they can. Do you feel better about yourself as a human being for spewing such nonsense?