I am really hoping that this is the case…using language exchange as a pretext to bond with her and hopefully sparks fly and we hook up and get married. <3
If I were really serious about learning Chinese, I prefer self-study or some paid help through a formal class.
I’ve had some good success finding language practice partners with language exchange but have to weed out girls and gay guys looking for boyfriend or hookup.
IMHO language exchanges are pot luck - some are just English vampires and others are really too busy to meet regularly, while others are organised and committed to a fair exchange. I found the last while attending an official course, and suspect I learned more from a couple of hours a week spent with her than from days each week spent in class - not to mention getting the satisfaction of helping someone else to improve her English as well.