[quote=“sandman”]If you really feel that it’s becoming a serious problem, you might want to go to the cops and insist that they file a report of your complaint even if they can’t or won’t issue a restraining order.
That way, if things escalate and she accuses you of rape or something (not unheard of), at least your earlier complaint can be taken into account.[/quote]
there is some solid advise, not laying blame either way this situation can get very ugly very quick.
Inform the cops and get a dated paper to show your intent b4 she possible goes over the top.
[quote=“Mr He”] then just find out where she stays, and go visit her parents. Tell them what their girl is up to…
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I have a friend who has just been through the stalking thing with a 30 something Taiwanese female. He contacted his friend who set up the blind date in the first place and asked them to talk to her.
This worked. So, freinds/ family might be the first course of action after the stern talk has failed with the SWAT team coming in as a last resort.
im a guy, and i got stalked walking home from the swimming pool at night. by a guy. i was scared as hell. if you wanna read the story, go find it at “living in taiwan” forum. the thread is called “stalker only wanted to be my friend”
Besides asking help from the police, you should find a new place to live, get a new job and change your phone number. you don’t know what a crazy person would do next.normal people won’t stalk others
I’d still change my phone number and get a new online ID. You don’t have to give up your old friends, just your old ID.
I was “virtual” stalked a couple times from people I met on the Net, and it would seem all was well until suddenly they’d resurface, or send my email address to spam bots, or post something using my contact information in an forum for homosexual dating or something.
Changing ICQ numbers/Yahoo numbers, etc. was the only thing that worked permanently.