My wife has been complaining of headaches over the last week or so. The other day she went to the neurologist, who said it was probably down to too much time at the computer, too much stress (with our impending departure to China, perhaps especially). She’s been pretty lethargic and generally fed up.
Today she took the kids to ayi’s house in the car by herself. Half way there she suddenly stopped the car and began talking incoherently and confusedly. A seizure I suppose. Our older son found the mobile and called ayi to say help mummy’s gone weird, younger son in tears. Then she comes out of it and starts the car and drives off, apparently with no awareness at all of what has just happened. Yeah my son could have told her not to drive but what does he know, he’s only 11.
Ayi bf phones me and says wtf ayi just ran out of the apartment saying sis is sick, what’s the matter with Emily he wants to know? I just finished having my hair cut here at hoem and of course I have no idea.
They arrive and ayi is there in the car park. Emily is like carrying on and parking the car but still speaking incoherently (I get through to her on the phone at this point and can’t figure out what’s going on, she’s just sounding strange) and making a mess of the parking. Finally they get upstairs and E’s head still hurting, and tummy too. Goes to the bathroom to throw up and then (while I’m on the phone to ayi) starts having another seizure. They call an ambulance and obviously I go to the hospital too.
She has a CT scan and there’s a something in her brain. A xue kuai. They keep asking if she’s banged her head in the last couple of days and she hasn’t. They say it could possibly be a tumour, but more likely just a lot of blood vessels luanqibazao and bleeding, not too clear here.
They took her up to ICU. I took the kids home and tried to explain what is going on as best I can. They will do an MRI and maybe angiograph when she’s a bit more stable.
I’m supposed to take the little one to HK on Sunday to get my China work visa and start the process of moving to China, and E (completely compos mentis now) keeps saying I should go home and get on with packing. But obviously we have to postpone our departure.
Well they’ll call if there are any developments. Can’t stay with patients in ICU, only two visits a day.
If anyone has a clearer idea than me of what this is all about, please say so. If anyone does praying, that’s also OK by me.
Thanks for reading.
Wow! I’m sorry that I don’t have any idea what it’s about, but please know that there will be many of us with our fingers crossed for you. I sincerely hope that it turns out to be nothing more than a scary blip on the radar screen. Hang in there, stay calm, and hope that it works out for the best.