I got a fetish for the bing lang mei’s
most of them are Chinese though is that a taboo ?
and boringosity is such a nice word too…
not if the fetish is for the BingLangMeiness of it, and not the skin tone.
I have a friend at home who is the same way (except he isn’t joking). He likes the reallllllly trashy ones.
Back in North America, the vast majority of people didn’t have any particular fetish for Asians. But in Taiwan every other guy or girl you meet has a ‘thing’ for Asian boys or girls. Why? Easy answer. Because guys or gals who prefer to date Asians, move to Asia. In North America they are a minority.[/quote]
This humble opinion comes from a Euro-american, otherwise known as ‘caucasian’.
I grew up in a mostly African-american neighborhood. My middle school had some Southeast-Asians and other minorities. I think that due to the influence of my friends ex “Damn look at that booty!” “OOh she fine” I also looked closely at whoever that was. Eventually, my eyes only registered ‘sexy’ if the girl had chocolate skin, big curves, pineapple waves in her hair, etc.
High school demographics were mostly the same. I only have a vague recollection of thinking of one of my Asian-american classmates as “hot”. There weren’t that many of them and we didn’t hang out.
In university, the international population was 20%, and included many Asian-americans as well. That was the first time I had seen so many white people. I thought to myself “Why do all those blond girls look the same” – there was no attraction (except for one redhead).
At that time I made friends with Taiwanese, Thai, Vietnamese, and other Asians and really started to see the beauty of Asian women – particularly if their curves resembled African curves!
My point in quoting is 1, to agree that yes, those who like to date Asians move to Asia…but also 2, those who had no attraction to Asians before…would likely develop one after being around them for a while.
And icky about it. They seem to take away the “case by case” bit. They don’t seem to care much what you are into or who you are, just your blond hair.[/quote]
psst! news flash. you aren’t blonde. (I don’t count bleach) 
And icky about it. They seem to take away the “case by case” bit. They don’t seem to care much what you are into or who you are, just your blond hair.[/quote]
psst! news flash. you aren’t blonde. (I don’t count bleach) [/quote]
You don’t, but you aren’t local. The boys here can’t tell the difference. No one believes me when I tell them I’m not.
[quote=“Diego”]This humble opinion comes from a Euro-american, otherwise known as ‘caucasian’.
I grew up in a mostly African-american neighborhood. My middle school had some Southeast-Asians and other minorities. I think that due to the influence of my friends ex “Damn look at that booty!” “OOh she fine” I also looked closely at whoever that was. Eventually, my eyes only registered ‘sexy’ if the girl had chocolate skin, big curves, pineapple waves in her hair, etc.
High school demographics were mostly the same. I only have a vague recollection of thinking of one of my Asian-american classmates as “hot”. There weren’t that many of them and we didn’t hang out.
In university, the international population was 20%, and included many Asian-americans as well. That was the first time I had seen so many white people. I thought to myself “Why do all those blond girls look the same” – there was no attraction (except for one redhead).
At that time I made friends with Taiwanese, Thai, Vietnamese, and other Asians and really started to see the beauty of Asian women – particularly if their curves resembled African curves!
My point in quoting is 1, to agree that yes, those who like to date Asians move to Asia…but also 2, those who had no attraction to Asians before…would likely develop one after being around them for a while.[/quote]
Similar story to me except my first crush in 2nd grade was chinese, i dont think I even knew what china was at that time. I always liked black girls and asian girls over white girls. In HS I dated a Sri Lankan girl for like 3 years - then in college a taiwanese. I did date a natural blonde for like 6 months in 9th or 10th grade tho - haha.
I would stay away from anybody who seems to go only for a particular race. Particularly if it’s not their own race…it just seems way to fetishist to me. I would be wondering if that person was only with me because I’m white.
In Taiwan I’ve been with white, black, and Asian…Japanese, Thai, Indonesian, Taiwanese, and who knows what else, and it really is about the particular person more than anything else. My biggest problem was with the #1 guys…my one guy lived with his parents and had to whisper on the phone whenever he called, because he didn’t want his mom to know that he had a white girlfriend. Another guy, the dad used to bring us breakfast in bed in the morning. Grooooosssss!
What is the weirdest though, is that after all those guys I ended up being with an American guy! I never would have thought that would be a good match, but it seems to be working. More than a year together now…my longest relationship in 11 years!
I don’t find asian men MORE attractive and intriguing since I came to this island. I can see that there is some out there who is handsome and attractive, but these type of men/guys come also in black, white, red and all the other colors there is on this planet.
I don’t have a fetish about one certain type of men, except it has to BE a man 
My husband is my first asian, I met him through his sister, but I actually never thought he would end up as being mine. First time I met him, he was FOR SURE not my type. It changed. He changed. I changed.
I don’t find asian men MORE attractive and intriguing since I came to this island. I can see that there is some out there who is handsome and attractive, but these type of men/guys come also in black, white, red and all the other colors there is on this planet.
I don’t have a fetish about one certain type of men, except it has to BE a man
My husband is my first asian, I met him through his sister, but I actually never thought he would end up as being mine. First time I met him, he was FOR SURE not my type. It changed. He changed. I changed.[/quote]
Can you elaborate on that? I’m quite curious. How did it, you, and he change?
Was it, over time, you started to notice things about him, was it that you stayed in Taiwan and adjusted/learnt about their culture, was it that he started noticing you?
I’ve only dated Caucasian women but its not because of any fetish, but that there were hardly any Asian women where I have lived in the US. When I went back to Taipei last week, I did find this one Taiwan woman extremely attractive with a great smile. I’ll admit my two fetishes include a great smile, and black stockings. Dunno why, but women in black stockings is always a turn-on. Didn’t do anything since it was a brief visit but next time if I were to stay a bit longer then it’ll give me enough time to get shot down.
While at college in Worcester, MA I met an older female while working at Friendly’s who was exclusively into Asian males (but too old for me). Her current boyfriend was a skinny Asian male with long hair and a fu-manchu style mustache…almost like the actor who electric shocked Mel Gibson’s character in Lethal Weapon after he was captured (sorry, don’t know his name). What kind of freaked me out about her was that she dyed her hair jet black…just didn’t look right even for an Asian. I vaguely recall her saying she did that in order to look more Asian. Go figure.
Black stockings in the middle of Taiwan’s hot humid summer? Yummy.
did she also went with a pair of sneakers, a pink t-shirt and white shorts? That is a traffic stopper combination (of bad taste)…
Well all I can say is that there are horror stories about Asian men and their fetish for blond hair.
- I was in China last year, and ended up dating a Chinese guy who had never left the country. Within two days he was professing his undying love for me, and talking about the possiblity of following me back to the states, or me staying in China. He even went as far as to buy me a cellphone so he could contact me 24/7 and to find me a job. Needless to say I was FREAKED! When I decided that he was nuts (didn’t take long, when he presented me with the phone after I had been gone all weekend, after our first “date” I told him he was crazy and to leave, he decided to harrass me for weeks after. He became friends with my roommate, and would wait for me in my room (let in by the roommate) after classes. Follow me around, continued to profess his love. I freaked out at him several times after that, told him he needed to leave me alone. Now this is not the first store I have heard of caucassion girls being stalked by their ex Asian boyfriends. This freaked me out to say the least, and has changed my attitude about dating Asians who have never experienced the wide world.
- I am now dating a Taiwanese who lived in the states for many years. While I know that he does like blondes more, and in fact is not attracted to Asians at all, I take this as more of a usual guy thing, than the creapy Asian guy thing, he’s moved beyond that by having experience with white girls. Its more along the lines that he thinks blonds just are more attractive I guess. So I guess I am open to Asian men as long as they are not creapy…after one thing…blond hair or a greencard.
lilblondditz, I spent a year with a man who, at the end, decided to tell me that he was only with me because being with a foreigner was “fancy”. He used this as an excuse for having cheated on me for the entire year. Actually acted like it was a real excuse (and not something to be ashamed of).
This bastard even went as far as to tell my next boyfriend that he could go ahead and get rid of me because people already saw that he could land himself a foreign girl.
I agree with you about the horror stories.
I’ve heard everything from your story (which I am so sorry you had to deal with, it’s not right at all) to immigration girlfriend/wives to stalkers. It seems for some of the Asian guys its like a status symbol, but I could be getting it totally wrong. But I know there are a few good ones out there, at least I know mine is. 
why asian men would be more attractive for women? guess it might be they would buy them dinner , movies in first date, second date, third date…perhaps, fourth date 
believe me,it does work somtimes
[quote=“SuchAFob”]lilblondditz, I spent a year with a man who, at the end, decided to tell me that he was only with me because being with a foreigner was “fancy”. He used this as an excuse for having cheated on me for the entire year. Actually acted like it was a real excuse (and not something to be ashamed of).
This bastard even went as far as to tell my next boyfriend that he could go ahead and get rid of me because people already saw that he could land himself a foreign girl.
I agree with you about the horror stories.[/quote]
How does he know your next bf… wait. I probably don’t wanna know.
Mama always said stay away from the musicians, or worst, wanna-bes.
I would never date caucasians. They’re insidious. and they smell. and and they talk funny. oh, and they smell. And they’re hairier than I am. and they sound like Paris Hilton.
When female and male animals start getting together, they smell each other…
I just smelled my female cat and nothing happened… Am I doing something wrong?