[quote=“Incubus”][quote=“TaipeiSean”] The babysitter cost me only NT$9,000 p/m.
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Is this the going rate for childcare these days? Just curious what that entailed. Was it every day from Mon to Fri? Did you drop off the kid in the morning and pick him up after work? I’ll be in the market for childcare soon and have no clue what the rates are and what the care involves. The in-laws are an option, but after hearing your story, I’d like to look at some other options. Thanks for sharing.[/quote]With my first babysitter, my friend’s mother, This was from when my boy was about 14 months to 3 and a bit years.
At first I would drop him off around 8am and then pick him up around 6:30pm, Monday to Friday. I would supply the baby formula for his bottles while he still had them and also the nappies (diapers). Also had to buy lots of extra clothes to keep at the babysitter’s, too.
So at that time it was NT$9000 for around 10 hours, 5 days a week, for month.
When he started a kindy in Yo-Yo class, about 2 years old, the kindy bus used to come at around 8:30, so at first I used to stll drop him around the babysitters for 30 minutes and then the kindy bus would go to her place to pick up my boy. Then the kindy bus would drop him off again around 5:30pm at the babysitters. She would give him dinner and bath him. She would also wash the clothes he had worn that day so she always had a supply of clothes there.
Not long after that, through some trouble my ex-wife caused, I had to “quit” my regular hours office job and go back to a teaching position. So at that time, I could wait with him till the kindy bus came and then I would go to the gym and then work. The kindy bus would still drop him off around 5:30pm, but, I now didn’t get home till around 9:30pm - 10:00pm.
So at this stage, I still paid her NT$9000 but with reduced hours of 4 - 5hrs 5 days a week, per month. I kept it the same as she was keeping him later at night.
Sometimes I asked her if she could look after him on a Satuday night so I could go out with a friend, but not many times. As you can probably see from my work and his kindy, I didn’t get to see him much, so I seldom went out without him. Not much social life for a single dad…
Anyway, when he was about 4, I could tell that my boy was starting to wear down my friend’s mom. Oh, she was about 60y/o, but I thought she was pretty cool. So, I decided to change babysitters. My boy’s kindergarten helped me. They found a nanny service and one of the teachers went with me to check out the nannies and their apartments.
The good thing with these nannies is that they have some kind of government registration, not sure what that exactly means or what qualifications they have to have to be registered, but I guess it means if there was any trouble, you know who they are.
I decided on a lady about 50 y/o, she is a widow and looks after her son’s young daughter as well as a couple of other kids. She was proud of her registration and she tried to make her apartment child friendly. With her it was the same deal as what I had, kindy bus would drop him off around 5:30pm and I would pick him up around 10:00pm. She lived a bit further way from my place.
So for 4 - 5 hours, 5 days a week, I now paid NT$8000, for babysitting, but she also wanted NT$1000 for any additional expenses, like she would take him to the park in the evenings in summer and maybe buy him an ice cream or some candy. It was still NT$9000 a month so, that was fine. She still washed his clothes everyday, bathed him and gave him dinner. But she also said that I must give her a Chinese New Year bonus every year equal to one month’s babysitting fee. Well, OK… But she doesn’t like to take him on a Saturday.
Now he is in elementary school, grade 1, and the babysitting still follows the same routine.
I have thought about trying to find a nanny who would pick my boy up from AnChinBan and bring him home to my place and make dinner for him as well as me for when I get home and to bath him and make sure he finished his homework and to get him ready for bed, maybe keep my place a bit cleaner too, but haven’t really done any research into this to see how much it costs. The advantage with this is that he could go to bed earlier and get more sleep, it is such a struggle to get him up at 7:00am to get ready for school, but then, I wouldn’t get to see him for even the short time that I do see him every night…
Anyway, that’s the way it goes…