I’m with Da Brotha on this one. If used for guys it would give some kind of gay feeling, I think.
My girlfriend once did an impersonation to illustrate the concept of 38 and it was truely remarkable.
I should have caught it on video, so every foreigner could get an impression as vivid as mine…
I’ve usually taken it to mean something like “dork”. I don’t think it’s impact is quite as bad as “bitch” when saying it to a women. If a woman is pissed off because you called her “38” it is because a foreigner is putting her down.
I have a Taiwanese friend who use to call me san ba after I made off colour jokes.
I don’t think he was calling me ‘bitch’, instead I took it to mean ‘you nut’ or ‘crazy girl’. He also taught me 49, which he said was the same version for men.
It’s not impolite if you use it properly in a joking fashion with intimate friends. If you call some stranger woman teetering along the road on high heels “san ba”, that would be rude.
I’ve heard it explained as something akin to “dumb blonde” meaning usually women.
Try “LKK” on your male students if necessary instead. Or there is a whole bunch of slang using only numbers, from the days when we used to have only pagers instead of cell phones…the only one you really can’t use would be 8825252 because that could cost you money…
‘Sanba’ (38), if applied to women, means bimbo-ish, or over-effeminate. If applied to men it means camp or effeminate. It also has a more general meaning of just ‘annoying’ or ‘bad’. I would say if you want to say ‘silly’ or a little bit crazy, ‘bai chi’ is much better.
There was a thread a little while ago about the meaning of Sanba, and it probably comes form the date of International Women’s Day (celebrated more in the Mainland than here) which is 3/8.
Sorry about the unorganizedness of this post, but I’ve been meaning to post it for a while. I’ll never do it if I wait to clean it up first, maybe someone else will (add pinyin, English definitions, etc.)
This is something I got in a email a little while ago. Sorry about the length too:
Incense Pot : since everyone sticks it into her, and supposedly there is some famous Incense pot down near Tainan, that you stick before to give it added effect ( this is a really nasty thing to call someone and should only be used to get the bird you brought home from the VIBE out of the apartment)
To the best of my knowlegde, everything in there is directly connected locals. The number things might be stuff thrown up in a chatting window (some of them look familiar from CS sessions).
To the best of my knowlegde, everything in there is directly connected locals. The number things might be stuff thrown up in a chatting window (some of them look familiar from CS sessions).[/quote]
I think they intially came about when SMS’ing people on the mobile, as Chinese is a pain to type into a mobile; and have now have migrated to MSN, IQC, Yahoo messanger