As a teacher, I agree that punishments and outside “orders” only make people want to do the opposite.
I’ve had kids hurt themselves pretty badly immediately after the they decide to do exactly what I told them to stop doing because it was dangerous. And when they hurt themselves, I go over to them and say “and now you know why I told not to do that. Is anything broken? Did you hit your head? Are you bleeding?” And when the answer to all of those question is “no”, I say “ok, take some time to think about why you got hurt” and I walk away and observe them from a far enough distance that they don’t know if I’m watching them or not. I also tell other students to ignore that person. They learn their lesson and they don’t get the attention they were looking for by being dangerous and stupid in the process. Maria Montessori called that “natural consequences” and oh boy are they more effective than yelling at or punishing someone.
However, I’d love to know what could be similar motivation for people in quarantine. If you don’t want to quarantine, you shouldn’t have traveled. Full stop. “If you can’t pay the fine, don’t do the crime” (and if you can’t stay put during quarantine, stay put through the rest of the pandemic). Or, what are the natural consequences of not staying put while in quarantine? Your neighbors get mad at you? Oh no! Angry neighbors! Never seen that in TW! There’s an outbreak that you’re responsible for? Other than being responsible for causing an outbreak, you don’t suffer many consequences— the doctors, nurses, first responders, teachers and caregivers do. The only thing you’ll suffer is public shame, which doesn’t go very far.
As for goodie bags, that wouldn’t motivate me, certainly. The last thing I need is boxes of pineapple cakes and guava and other garbage that people like to pass around as gifts here. Unless they’re giving me premium coffee and high quality chocolate, I probably don’t want it. Maybe if I was provided with a nutritious meal three times a day and dessert that wasn’t made of foam, I’d be motivated. But right now, the people I know who have quarantined in government facilities were given lunch boxes that were so oily they just didn’t eat for two weeks. And the fear of touching money/ delivery can only be received if you have a credit card goes too far given what we know about how covid spreads. So I can’t say I blame people for wanting to sneak out, but I personally cannot think of anything other than a massive fine or revoking of my APRC as motivation to keep me locked in my apartment for two weeks