Not so.
The Chit Chat Cafe was actively promoted here by Toe, who denied various accusations that were made until he parted ways with them - at which point he changed his tune. I think some people felt that he had misrepresented the situation, but to be honest I didn’t follow the story in enough detail to have an informed opinion. Nevertheless, I get the impression that some people still doubt Toe’s personal credibility, which has a bearing on the current situation.
Would you work for someone you don’t trust? Hold that thought, while I move on.
You only need two things to succeed. One is a foolproof plan and the other is total commitment, which stems from believing in yourself and your project.
I think Toe scores pretty highly for the latter, and if people keep pointing out the pitfalls he should be able to devise a plan that will avoid them. So he could be on to a winner, if he’s in charge of the situation enough that he’s not dictated to by events.
Actually, I’m a little puzzled as to what Toe is actually going to be doing. He’s not teaching the courses, he’s not writing them, and I doubt that he’ll be doing the sales and marketing. So he has some vague ‘in the middle’ postion that, frankly, gives me the willies.
Do you have a clear job description that defines your responsibilities and chain of command/communication?
I’m not sure who has sold who here.
Has the master Toe persuaded some people who should know better to give him a respectable salary in exchange for doing whatever he wants?
Or have they bought a Slave that will be their’s to do with as they will, that will eat shit and carry the can in exchange for less than I make right now for having fun?
(Or does your detailed job description include a bonus structure too? It should.)
I believe that eventually one party to this agreement is going to decide that they’re not getting what they thought they were going to get, and yet another contract will go down the toilet.
You do have a contract, right? You have a signed, sealed, agreement that guarantees you have a job to go to. This job isn’t going to evaporate before you start like they sometimes do, is it?
Contracts are worth shit anyway. (I’ll prove that to you when you buy me those loudmouths.) I’m in the process of renewing my ARC right now, and signed the new contract without reading it - because I don’t care what it says.
I have a good relationship with the employer, as I do with all the people I work for. The contract is merely a formality to enable the paperwork to go through. I don’t have one anywhere else, because this is a business relationship and business relationships rest on trust.
Trust, and respect actually. And that’s what’s bugging me about this.
I’ve bailed out on cntracts before where they weren’t being honoured. I’ve quit jobs where people were dicking with me. But I have never walked out on my obligations where people have treated me decently.
As I understand it, Toe has signed a contract, taken on responsibilites, and then renegued on the deal because he found something better. Which brings me back to personal credibility.
“I’m sorry, but we found someone who would teach the course for NT$50 an hour less.”
“Well, yes, I know we promised you X hours. But we got a better deal from someone else.”
In my book once you have a deal you stick with it and you don’t go looking around for better offers until you have given that deal time to mature. Business is a relationship where we share the same objectives and look out for each other. We don’t drop our business partners for no good reason.
That’s why I’m teaching someone else’s classes even though I don’t need the money and don’t want the work. My business partner needs help. And when I want time off (to go sailing in Hong Kong, as I did last year) I know that my partners will work with me to make it possible. We look after each other, we trust each other.
So, although I like the idea of what Toe wants to do, I don’t hear that little voice in my head telling me to work with him. That little voice makes most of my important decisions for me these days. When I listen to it it’s invariably right.
That little voice didn’t tell me to pursue BDC more vigorously after I interviewed them. It told me to be careful of the people who had me write a course for me recently, and then moved the goalposts. I chose to take the chance, and might even take the chance with Toe if he could put a decent offer on the table. But I wouldn’t make any meaningful commitment until I saw more evidence of real commitment from the other side.
And with that I should try and bow out of this thread, although I will continue to read. Toe is trying to do the right thing, all life is learning, and I certainly don’t wish him to fail in this. I hope it’s an enormous success and I have to eat my words, because there are far too many naysayers in the world and not enough good advice aimed at making good things happen. If you’re still there and making a go of this in six months I’ll be the one buying the drinkies.
But, one last question: 2.5 hours, twelve times? How the hell can you go sailing in that time? And I can only sail one boat at a time, although a choice of toys would be nice.