I’d imagine that parents organizing everything has something to do with it too.
I’m sure the local guys are happy to take on this ‘organize everything’ job as it probably makes them more manly or something. As for me, I
want to be with someone who helps me relax, not gives me more shit to do.
Its a bit tacky to expect everything to be payed for nuff said. Paying for stuff should be a treat, not an obligation. Thats a culture difference that probably makes me stingy in the eyes of a lot of locals but it is what it is.