[quote=“Fox”]You are saying shagging as many women as you like and getting drunk can be equated to being a degenerate. It doesn’t put you in the right frame of mind for teaching children. I’m saying that is wrong. I don’t think you can equate one with the other and if you do you are feeding the prejudices that exist. Some people don’t think men should be allowed to teach kids. Some people don’t think gays should be allowed to teach kids. Some people don’t think Casanovas should be allowed to teach kids. Some people don’t think fun loving young adults should be allowed to teach kids. I think the standard should be judged on job performance not prejudice.
If you feel you look bad because you think other people are making you look bad then maybe you’ve got some introspection ahead of you. You equate one with the other, I believe, because you think it too. But it ain’t necessarily so.
You might think my point of view is quite radical and I’m sure you are not alone, but I happen to think it’s a lot more egalitarian than your own and ultimately a better message.[/quote]
I’m really quite flabbergasted… let’s recap - I opined that teaching was a noble profession with a lot of people doing it out of sheer love; an important profession that commands respect from all involved. I also suggested that Taiwanese do have a preconceived notion of foreign English teachers as boozy backpacking kids, which from my standpoint is half-bollocks, half-true.
Rather than complain about the boozy backpacker image being untrue or unfair (which I could happily go along with) you go on the defensive to say that it’s perfectly fine to be the stereotypical boozy English teacher and anyone who thinks otherwise is a nosy do-gooder? What a thoroughly bizarre argument.
When placed in such a position of responsibility I do not think it is okay to take an ‘all bets are off’ approach to your private life. I’m not talking about a puritanical lifestyle but rather some modicum of self-control - that means work and fun coexist together happily but work comes first. I know a few English teachers out here who are even proud of getting shitfaced every Saturday/Sunday and this saddens me terribly when I think of all those loving, dedicated teachers who put so much heart into their job. You can be as pleased with yourself and your egalitarian ways as you like but seeing such a blase attitude to working with young children has left me with a very sour taste.