I just moved a family overseas to Taiwan (Taipei). My kids are ages 1 and 2.
My kids had never been to Taiwan before and are adjusting nicely. No issues with air quality, food, or anything like that.
My wife and I spoke a lot of Chinese at home trying to get them ready for this move. Now, we’re working on their English. Your kids will really need to speak the language if they want to fit in.
Everyone says that kids are more adaptable than adults… not true! Think about how much kids are into routines. And think about what it would be to rip away their favorite blanket (or whatever it is) from them and multiply that by 100. That’s how hard the move is going to be. But if you’re dead sure that this is the right choice, they’ll get over it… once they realize that going back to the States isn’t an option.
Kids aren’t flexible. But they forget quickly. Give them time and they’ll accept Taiwan as their new home.
Also, don’t teach English. Low job stability, low pay, terrible hours. Try to get certified in something before you leave the States. I don’t know about your state, but if there’s a teacher shortage, you can get a full certification very quickly. Especially if you teach math or science, you can earn close to your current take-home salary (partly because taxes here are so low).
Speaking of certifications, if you’re even thinking about one, do it before you leave the country. It is far more difficult over here. (It’s not impossible… you just have far fewer options)
Finally, because you were asking about start-up costs… in the first 2 weeks here, we spent:
— $4,000NT just stocking the kitchen (things you only buy once… like spices, cooking ware, etc.)
— $4,000 on food (this includes eating out and ingredients you need to buy for each meal… like meat, etc)
— $4,000 baby proofing the apartment. Our landlord insisted on these measures… afraid our kids would break everything. If you’re renting, you’ll likely have a non-baby friendly apartment that you’ll have use your own creativity in order to baby proof yourself.
— $2,000 on housing supplies (things like toilet paper, cleaning supplies, etc… our apartment was already furnished, so this number doesn’t include furniture)
Hope this helps!
P.S. if you have further questions about what it’s like to like here with two kids ages two and under… feel free to PM me!
EDIT: some more thoughts… do you have a contact in Taiwan who can help you? When my wife and I first landed, we were trying to do everything ourselves. But moving across the world requires help. Definitely try to make connections before you fly. They say it takes a village to raise a child… and that’s even more true when you’re a stranger in a strange place. PM me if you decide to go through with the move.