Yeah I’m a hetero male, I’ve been social media talking to this girl I think a girl for like on and off for a few weeks. She he is not making it aware publicly so I just don’t know I get this sense that maybe some type of male-ness going on.
In Taiwan, which is a big capital of LGTBQ+
I’m kind of just waiting it out and No I’m not going to ask directly.
Go hang out. You’ll find out soon enough and if you get along and she’s a she, great. If she’s a he and you get along, OK, that’s not bad either, right?
Do you really need to know what this person is packing downstairs before you meet up or is this a meet and greet via love motel kind of thing? In for a penny, in for a pounding?
Well just ask. But don’t expect a truthful answer. By the way many female profiles on dating sites are fake. They literally have employees create fake profiles in order to keep customers paying. I think some of them (who are fat male) have t shirts saying “I’m your internet girlfriend”.
Meanwhile this woman is chatting with her friends saying something along the lines of ‘I’ve been chatting with this guy for weeks and he hasn’t suggested meeting… maybe he is gay I’m not sure’